Leverage Your Right Brain to Better Use your Left Brain

Build your relationships first….then your dentistry. ~ Bob Barkley

Leverage Your Right Brain to Better Use your Left Brain

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Bob Dylan became the first musician to win the Nobel Prize for Literature, but he never set it as a goal, and he has no idea how it ever happened. In truth, Bob was just following his heart, his intuition, and his creative sense.

Bob’s work was the result of an inductive method, and consequently, he violated every rule regarding song structure and lyrics. He followed his vision before he had a full understanding of what he was creating, and consequently he let his incredibly high right brain skills guide him while leveraging his left brain musical knowledge.

And that made his work both unique AND resonate with the public like no other singer-songwriter had ever done before.

Relationship-based / health-centered dentistry requires this same approach. It requires a deep foundational understanding of dentistry on a technical level, but it also requires us to let go of the confines of our knowledge, and allow our creative minds to sense, intuit, and synthesize something new – inductively.

Recently, I had the privilege of meeting two prospective new clients who were seeking my assistance. And they had no idea what kind of help they needed – all they knew was that it was significant.

In the past, I would have jumped in quickly and built an elaborate solution for these individuals by examining them and staging a “case presentation” to demonstrate my exceptional problem solving skills and expert status.

And all of this would have been achieved through a deductive process based on my training, experience, and the scientific method, with little consideration for how they felt or even what they perceived as being important.

Today however, I rarely do that. Instead, I try to use induction to understand them…hear their pain and frustration, as well as try to facilitate in them a vision for a better future, one which makes sense to them and causes them to feel better about them-self.

And that requires me to get off my high horse and try to see dentistry as they view it…a confusing mess of things and choices that they have no capacity to place appropriate value upon.

That is why they called, not because they thought they had a titanium deficiency, or because they wanted to look like the cover model of Glamor Magazine.

They called because of their feelings, and likewise it was Bob Dylan’s understanding of feelings which catapulted him to the top.

And the same is possible for you.

Paul A Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

On Philosophy

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There is an important distinction between “having” a philosophy and “living” a philosophy.

“Having” a philosophy implies that one has a vision of a better way of life, but it doesn’t necessarily mean that the thoughts are being acted upon…that progress is being made in the direction of that vision. “Having” a philosophy therefore can often represent little more than a dream.

“Living” a philosophy, or living with a clear sense of purpose, is about engaging life based on our values, on an accurate understanding of ourself, on a realistic view of the world around us, on a clear understanding of what we are trying to accomplish, focused on principle-centered goals, and by acting daily with integrity to support all of the above.

Drs. Pankey and Barkley talked extensively about the need to clarify our practice philosophy and to apply it daily. But most of us rarely think of ourselves as philosophers – particularly through our daily practice – so we struggle seeing the true value in deeply engaging ourselves in this type of internal work.

Their point was that living a life with greater purpose is often an opportunity which lies right in front of us. And consequently, the opportunity for a life full of emotional, spiritual, and financial reward lies there as well.

Approaching life from a “givers” perspective yields more back in return. It is a perspective of abundance – that loving and caring for others is a reciprocal experience and therefore inherently Win-Win.

Our daily decisions are what drive us toward our future. And it is what we believe about ourself and the world around us -our philosophy- which influences our direction toward a greater or lesser purpose.

Now is good time for you to examine or re-examine your personal philosophy, and subsequent practice and life purpose.

Take the challenge, because here on earth, you only live once.

Paul A. Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2016

Read more at www.CoDiscovery.com

Know Your Patient

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We all want to get along and be liked. We also want to make good decisions, so when we make decisions regarding issues that we know little about, we often use a cognitive-social approach by asking our friends for advice, observing other people’s behavior, or seeking out and reading testimonials.

In the world of the social sciences, this cognitive-social approach, is known as “social proof” or “informational social influence”.

Psychologists tell us that we make assumptions about most things via a rather incomplete fact-gathering process often tainted with bias. And sometimes this process may even be completely devoid of facts.

We see this phenomenon frequently in dentistry, as patients enter our practices with all kinds of preconceived notions picked up from their social environment, or through experience – and how much of it is true is unique to the individual.

Some patients function off of ‘survivorship bias’, which is based on our tendency to assume marketplace “winners” are those who are most visible. In other words, in the popularity contest of life, less visible and better options are often not even considered. A current example of this is the growing public assumption that every “all on four” case is successful long-term, and every patient is happy with the outcome. This distorted perception has been created by some very clever and persistent marketing which conveniently skips past potential down-sides.

As a marketing executive friend of mine once told me, “If you are not in the top three of top-of-mind, you may as well not exist.” This marketing truth can open the door to all kinds of moral arguments regarding marketing, and about which our profession has struggled with for over fourty years. I will leave the probing of this issue for another day, but suffice it to say that the “marketing issue” is full of moral fog, and if marketing is not done in a principle-centered fashion, it can lead to some very undesirable outcomes for patients and consequently the reputation of dentistry as a profession.

Our patients also have a tendency for what psychologists call “loss aversion”, which refers to our tendency to strongly prefer avoiding losses over acquiring gains. In other words, we have a psychological tendency to seek out bargains instead of quality, unless a strongly assertive argument and expectation is established for the later. Consequently, the “race to the bottom” with regard to viewing dentistry as a price-sensitive commodity by the public is real, and it is rooted in loss aversion. Hence, establishing a brand expectation for quality is a challenging but essential step for health-centered / relationship-based dentists.

Our patients are also influenced by what is known as the ‘availability heuristic’, which is a little mental glitch in our heads which causes us to assume that the first things which come to our minds are the most relevant to us. For instance, when people think of Delta Dental they think of saving money, and not that the policy is limited to $1000.00 a year, is highly restricted, or that dental “insurance” is really a defined benefit plan which has nothing to do with their overall dental health.

And finally, many of our patients often come to us with a ‘confirmation bias’, which refers to their tendency to search for -and favor- information which confirms their beliefs, while simultaneously ignoring or devaluing information that contradicts those beliefs. An example of this is seen when a patient comes to us believing that all dentists will hurt them, or that any dentist who is not on their insurance plan will take advantage of them financially.

You can easily see from this brief discussion, that the psycho-social nature of our relationships with patients before, during, and after treatment is complex and potentially full of cognitive distortions which can lead to undesirable behavior and poor decision-making. Consequently, successful helping relationships emerge only when we are aware of where potential distortions may lie and tactfully manage our patient’s expectations toward more successful treatment outcomes through collaborative relationship-building, and co-discovery.

L.D. Pankey put it another way, “Know your patient”, because it is the only pathway to health-centered outcomes in patients with complex needs.

Paul A Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments, LLC © 2017

Read more at www.codiscovery.com

Can Health-centered Dentistry be “unit-based”?

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The concept of unit-based dentistry is based upon the sickness-centered medical model and a by-product of the industrialization of health care delivery. As such, it begs a question: Are people simply the sum total of their body parts? And if so, when someone is missing a few of their body parts, are they therefore less of a person as a result?

Obviously, we are much more than a sophisticated aggregation of symbiotically functioning parts. Why then are we seduced into treating our patients as if this were not the case?

Another question: Would an artist ever consider charging per color when creating a painting? If the medical model of reimbursement were true, universal, and appropriate, why wouldn’t the value of a painting simply be based upon the sum total of the cost of the paint and the time it takes to apply it?

Is a masterful painter more or less of an artist than a masterful dentist designing and creating sophisticated solutions which take into consideration -at extremely high levels – biology, physiology, biomechanics, neurology, form, function, esthetics, and dare I say…feelings?

My point here is that unit-based thinking is mechanistic , reductionistic, and puts us at great risk of completely separating our thinking and treatment strategies apart from our patient’s complex and fascinating humanness.

Unit – based thinking is an immediate solution-centered concept fostered by historical insurance reimbursement patterns. It completely disregards the complexity of our work -on and with humans – and the fact that we are much more than an accumulation of teeth, bone, and gingiva attached to jaw joints.

The challenge remains for many dentists to figure out how to treat their patients more holistically when they are only being reimbursed by third parties for parts repair, servicing, and replacement.

Dentists who aspire to treat their patients as “whole people” with feelings, goals, and uniquely challenging physical circumstances must separate themselves from the needs and the demands of the insurance industry as much as possible if they are to be successful.

Dentistry is an art and a science. It is also extensively about care, skill and judgment. In that context, a crown is not just a crown applied universally like a 3/4 inch stainless steel bolt, an exam is not an exam when goals differ, and a treatment plan is not the same for every patient with the same code-worthy disability.

Clearly getting paid by the unit simply fails to acknowledge this fundamental truth.

Paul A. Henny, DDS

Vision Matters

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Don was a 13-year-old paperboy when he read the headline that Buddy Holly had been killed in a tragic plane crash. The news left him devastated and empty inside, particularly when his friends responded with “So what?”.

Later Don McLean become a struggling solo act artist rambling through Canada and playing Buddy Holly songs 13 years after Buddy’s death, and when Holly’s legacy of ‘Peggy Sue’, ‘That’ll be the day’, and ‘Not Fade Away’, were largely forgotten.

But Don McLean had a vision rolling around in his head, a vision of a song which was true as ‘American Pie’ and that revealed his deep feeling of loss.

When the song was finally written following a flurry of inspiration, the recording took months to complete. Don’s former record label had collapsed into bankruptcy; and the session musicians kept telling him what was wrong with it.

McLean persisted, and the song hit #1 for four weeks and quickly propelled the album to gold status, making Don a millionaire along the way. He recently sold a copy of the original manuscript for 1.2 million dollars.

I am sharing this story today, because this is precisely how a vision works. Visions are deep on purpose, inspiration, and tenacity, and they face many obstacles which must be overcome before they are ever shared and generate prosperity.

These same principles apply to the creation of a relationship-based practice. It requires a clear vision, insight, readiness, and a deep determination to overcome every obstacle. And just like Don McLean’s experience, the rewards of execution are greater than ever imagined in the beginning.

Paul A Henny DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

Read more at www.codiscovery.com

How True Teams Behave

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Watch a competitive athlete make an honest error in a game and observe how quickly his or her teammate’s gather around to offer encouragement and support.

Now, compare that observation to what happens in your practice. How are errors or honest mistakes perceived and handled? And are they perceived and handled differently for different people?

The bottom line: What is the emotional cost of learning in your practice?

High performance Care Teams view honest mistakes by capable* team members as a part of the learning process. They move forward, by recognizing that the making of few mistakes may imply that not enough risks are being taken – that not enough intellectual and creative stretching is occurring to advance the practice mission to the next level and better support the Purpose.

Consequently, always “playing it safe” by definition fails to move a practice forward toward peak performance. Great practice leaders intuitively know this – that stumbling precedes walking and that walking precedes running. They offer support and encouragement just at the right moments to keep facilitating growth and expanding upon what is possible each and every day.

Paul A. Henny, DDS

*As with any great sports team, there are moments when new members do not seem to fit the practice culture or mission, and there are other members who have moved past their prime and their current performance is now hindering the vital growth and development process. An essential – and difficult- part of leadership includes identifying these individuals and respectfully moving them out of the team ( or perhaps to a different place within it ) so that new potential can be actualized through more purpose-aligned members.

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

Read more at www.codiscovery.com

How True Teams Behave

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Watch a competitive athlete make an honest error in a game and observe how quickly his or her teammate’s gather around to offer encouragement and support.

Now, compare that observation to what happens in your practice. How are errors or honest mistakes perceived and handled? And are they perceived and handled differently for different people?

The bottom line: What is the emotional cost of learning in your practice?

High performance Care Teams view honest mistakes by capable* team members as a part of the learning process. They move forward, by recognizing that the making of few mistakes may imply that not enough risks are being taken – that not enough intellectual and creative stretching is occurring to advance the practice mission to the next level and better support the Purpose.

Consequently, always “playing it safe” by definition fails to move a practice forward toward peak performance. Great practice leaders intuitively know this – that stumbling precedes walking and that walking precedes running. They offer support and encouragement just at the right moments to keep facilitating growth and expanding upon what is possible each and every day.

Paul A. Henny, DDS

*As with any great sports team, there are moments when new members do not seem to fit the practice culture or mission, and there are other members who have moved past their prime and their current performance is now hindering the vital growth and development process. An essential – and difficult- part of leadership includes identifying these individuals and respectfully moving them out of the team ( or perhaps to a different place within it ) so that new potential can be actualized through more purpose-aligned members.

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

Read more at www.codiscovery.com

Think Like a Sailor

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Imagine your brain is a computer, and at the beginning of each day you have 100% of available memory. And as you proceed through each day, bits and pieces of that memory become preoccupied with focusing upon tasks and responsibilities which must be accomplished that day or in the near future.

This memory is much like the RAM – random access memory- on your computer, which is fragile and lost if the power goes out… and the larger the number and frequency of obligations we are confronted with each day, the less capacity we have left for creative problem solving – the only pathway to potentially making tomorrow a more effective day than today, and a day more in alignment with what we want to see happen long-term…our “preferred future”.

In other words, our here-and-now obligations and distractions easily become barriers to our long range goals and vision.

So how do we get around our natural tendency to over-focus on immediate needs at the expense of critical long range goals in our ever-more swamped schedule?

Strategic Planning and curating – curating out of our schedule low priority items and keeping our strategic plan top-of-mind.

AND THEN setting aside time each day to focus and steer our practice and life in the direction of our long-term vision.

The key point here is making the DAILY commitment to doing this. The DAILY re-focusing and the DAILY adjustments demanded by current conditions.

You see, our brain functions much like a computer on some levels, but our life never follows the plan created by our objective thinking. On this, Dwight Eisenhower accurately said, “Planning is essential, but plans are useless”, because navigating our life is more like sailing than programming a guided missile.

A good sailor has both destination and current conditions in mind, and they are constantly re-assessing, while making course corrections and resource utilization adjustments to insure the port of choice is reached.

So too then, we must manage the direction of our practice. Because without doing so, the prevailing economic winds, tides, and weather will easily throw our dreams upon the rocks.

Paul A Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

Read more on www.co-discovery.com

First Principles

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First Prin·ci·ples, noun: the fundamental concepts or assumptions on which a theory, system, or method is based.
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Elon Musk is perhaps the boldest entrepreneur on our planet. After founding PayPal and revolutionizing the way the world made on-line payments, he started Tesla, SpaceX, and Solar City, and is now revolutionizing automobiles, rocketry, and solar panels.

Musk attributes his creative successes to First Principle thinking. He said, “I think it is important to reason from First Principles rather than by analogy…First Principles is kind of a physics way of looking at the world. You boil things down to the most fundamental truths and say, ‘What are we sure is true?’ … and reason up from there.”

As health-centered, relationship-driven dentists, we can learn a lot from Elon Musk. And that is because reasoning from First Principles is the ONLY way to create an authentic practice experience for our patients.

What do I mean by “authentic”?

I mean the creation of a practice which represents a true reflection of who you are as a person and Care Team; a reflection of your quality and caring that is so obvious it can go unspoken – as just observed and felt is quite enough.

And authenticity must start with First Principles, which are like lighthouses, showing the way even in the fog and storms of daily living in a complex and ever-changing world.

Boiling things down to First Principles allows us to then build upon them flexible and congruent mental models which are unique, powerful, effective, and deeply satisfying.

And building resilient Principle-centered mental models also help us avoid defaulting to the way everyone else does things…often in lock step with ever-changing insurance industry demands … following the money AND AWAY FROM UNIQUENESS AND AUTHENTICITY.

If people are going to choose your practice over many other options, they need to have a rock solid reason. And if people are going to pay an appropriate fee for the receipt of your finest care, skill, and judgment, they need a rock solid reason.

And that reason needs to be the brand called the authentic, principle-centered YOU – as nothing less will do.

Paul A. Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

Read more at co-discovery.com

How Our Memories Shape Our Decisions

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We accurately remember only 20 percent of what we hear, and remember only 30 percent of what we see and hear. However, we can recall 70 percent of what WE say and write down, and 90 percent of what WE say and what WE participate in exploring after we have heard it from someone else.

This is another way of saying that we misunderstand people all the time, and they misunderstand us right back, unless we make a concerted effort to minimize misunderstandings.

As humans, we are very biased in our first impression of others. Psychologists call this bias “primary effect”, where in essence, our brains are designed to make quick assessments which then help us to determine if we are safe and therefore what to do next.

As we age and become more educated, we add more layers and complexities to this process. As dentists, and dental team members, we like to add: “They are not a cooperative person”. “They don’t know which end of a toothbrush to use”. “They never follow my directions.” “They have a low dental IQ!”

But in truth, upon first meeting someone, we know far too little about the them to draw many accurate conclusions. And we have all experienced this, as the best dressed person with the finest car, can sometimes be the most difficult to work with – and completely unreliable. Conversely, the fellow with the beat-up pickup truck and dirty work boots can be so reliable and good-for-his-word, that you can plan your whole day around him right down to the last minute.

Our minds naturally want to make quick assessments of others, and then find ways to think which are consistent with what we already believe about them.

Then, laid on top of this is our tendency to use our positional authority figure power to leverage an outcome WE desire.

And perhaps worse, we confuse this leveraging with leadership, when in truth it is a subtle form of manipulation, and when successful at gaining compliance often creates co-dependency relationships which then bare bad fruit later on down the road.

So how do we get around our natural tendency to misunderstand others and consequently, trip ourselves up and undermine our well-intended purpose?

Bob Barkley answered that question fifty years ago. He told us that to build successful relationships which render out problem ownership, compliance, and ultimately a higher degree of health, we must create an experiential learning environment for our new patients, one in which they can experience the meaning of what they are learning (co-discovery), and then participate in planning for a more preferred future (co-diagnosis / co-planning).

And in so doing, we hit the 90% retention rate, and when that true and transformational knowledge matches up with their values and priorities, we hear the word “YES!”

Paul A Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2016

Read more at: www.codiscovery.com

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