Values Clarification

Build your relationships first….then your dentistry. ~ Bob Barkley

Values Clarification

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“Values clarification” has become a common buzzphrase in dentistry, particularly with regard to patients and their treatment choices.

Too often, values clarification has become code for “We know what is best and if they do not choose it, then they don’t belong here.”

And that is pure judgmentalism, as the implication is that only WE are the knowers and keepers of proper values, and that everyone else needs rise up in agreement.

In reality, values clarification has nothing to do with our patients choosing what we want for them, and it isn’t even about choosing the best; it’s about making fully informed choices in real time referenced against other issues and demands going on in that person’s life.

It can take five minutes.

It can take five years.

And those choices may or may not be in alignment with our practice’s values and mission.

And that is ok.

The more important issue is: Can we help this person in a way that does not violate OUR values? Can we lead them to a healthier place by facilitating a change in their perspective?

Maybe.

Maybe not.

Regardless, attempting to do so require clarity of OUR values well before we start a new relationship with a patient.

Values…Mission…Purpose…Strategies…and ultimately choices are made.

Both a practice and the patients within it have work and growth to do if the true agenda is to move forward toward more optimal health and healing. Our work is essential, their’s is elective, but both clearly influence the outcome.

Paul A Henny DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

Read more at www.codiscovery.com

Build Your Relationships First

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The Laser scanning / micro-milling technology we use today has its origins in the relentless work of Dr. Francois Duret of France collaborating with the international electronics firm, HENNSON, starting in the early 1970’s.

By the mid-1980’s fully functional prototypes had been developed, and the only missing element was finding major investors to take the concept into the marketplace.

Duret’s innovation launched the “same day” restoration revolution. And the race for shorter and shorter treatment times was on.

Shorter treatment times certainly have advantages, and in this case, skipping past temporization and a second seating visit, has high appeal to many practitioners, particularly when restoration fabrication can be delegated and the dentist can move on to another treatment room.

But we must also consider what we are losing in exchange for the wiz, whirl, and excitement created by Duet’s amazing idea.

And what is potentially lost (in a younger dentist in particular), is the opportunity to master provisionalization and through doing so, glean information from observing their appearance and performance in the mouth.

Additionally, moving too quickly, and through treatment on some patients, primarily because it is now easier to do so, may inadvertently create a ‘tender trap’ of co-dependency or worse.

And on that issue, I am reminded of Bob Barkley’s famous quote, “Build your relationships first, then your dentistry.”

New technology can easily be a double-edged sword. When used appropriately (technically AND behaviorally) it can render amazing results. But when used primarily as a vehicle of convenience, it may just represent the replacement of one problem with another.

“Going slow”, particularly when we do not know the patient well, has its place in dentistry too. And knowing when to ‘go slow’, is the key to successfully developing more and more patients into appreciating the value of fine, comprehensive restorative dentistry.

Paul A Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

Read more at www.codiscovery.com

Curing vs. Healing

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Practitioners of health-centered dentistry understand the important distinction between “health” and “sickness”, and consequently the difference between “healing” and “curing”.

Today, lets explore these critically important concepts:

HEALTH: A personally defined state of being which is always capable of refinement. HEALTH IS ABOUT ONE’S ATTITUDE TOWARD ONE’S PHYSICAL CONDITION, and is relatively unattached to our physiology at the moment.

“Attitude is everything”

Health is therefore NOT simply the absence of disease, it is more about the commitment to grow and reach our full potential under the circumstances and even in the presence of disease. Health is an ongoing process driven by an attitude of self-preservation and improvement and how this affects both ourself and those around us.

SICKNESS is the opposite, it is absence of health. It is also attitudinal in the sense that it is about the meaning of the disease state to us at the moment.

“My family has bad teeth”

Sickness is a subtractive condition of life in which personal potential for growth toward greater health is being blocked by one’s attitude toward the problem. It is therefore not growth-oriented, it is not refinement-oriented, and it represents a position of surrender which requires the search for someone to rescue us from the crisis.

CURING: The maximal restoration of biological norms – “Restoration”. Curing does not require the active participation of the person who is sick, hence it can often be a form of rescuing.

HEALING: An internalized process which can be prompted and facilitated by others. Regardless, it ALWAYS requires the affected person’s active participation. By definition, it is therefore NOT rescuing and it is growth-oriented.

Masterful health-centered practitioners minimize curing* and maximize healing. And by so doing, they enhance health and avoid the perpetuation of sickness.

I recently heard a prominent speaker and proponent of practice involvement with dental insurance state that quality to him represents restorations which are “functional”, “well-sealed”, and “look pretty-good”.

Do you think his practice is focused on “healing” or “curing”? Does his practice primarily promote moving patients toward higher levels of health, or toward a minimally acceptable level of repair as fast as possible?

*It is important to emphasize that H-C doctors do not necessarily refuse to “cure”, rather they try to strategically use a crisis as a “learning moment” which can potentially be leveraged to create more engagement, ownership, growth, and movement toward health.

Paul A. Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

Read more at www.codiscovery.com

Got Memories?

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Got memories? We all have them stored deeply by the truck load.

And what about our favorite memories? Our child’s first bike ride? That amazing trip to the Grand Canyon? Our critical role in winning the championship game? The truth is that these events did not happen exactly the way we remember them.

In fact, if we truly cherish our memories, we need to stop thinking about them because they will never be the same again if we do.

Obviously, that is both undesirable and impossible, but I say this to make the point that our brains constantly betray us by transforming our memories every time we recall them.

According to a recent study in the Journal of Neuroscience, our emotions color our experience -and therefore our memory- the very first time AS WELL AS each time we recall it. Every time we take a memory out of your personal data base, it is saved someplace else in our brain in a slightly altered state based on how we are feeling at the moment.

Consider the implications of this in dentistry. Some of our new patients report horrific stories of trauma associated with their past treatment. Personally, I have heard a story similar to “the dentist stood on my chest with both feet trying to get my tooth out” about 20 times now.

Of course, this never happened to these patients exactly as described, but to them it is absolutely real, ( and in this case) represents a recurring existential threat to this day.

Which leads me to my final point. Our patients have memories and stories about which we must listen carefully -without judgment – regardless of how unlikely this may represent the truth.

Why?

Because WHAT REALLY MATTERS IS WHAT THESE MEMORIES MEAN TO THE PATIENT TODAY, as it is this meaning which will potentially drive future behavior if it is not superseded by a more accurate and relevant experience.

If the meaning fully blocks their openness to experiencing something new, comfortable, predictable, and safe, as well as something which helps them grow past these distortions, then where exactly is their relationship with us going in the future?

Conversely, if individuals have come to us with an openness to addressing their past distortions, with an intention to grow toward greater health, isn’t that one of the most exciting and most meaningful moments we can ever experience?

Paul A. Henny, DDS

Thank You For Supporting The Bob Barkley Study Club Plus A Special Guest

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Dr. Paul Henny introduces the marketing team behind PaulHennyDDS.com, Co-Discovery.com and the videos you see on these sites.

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I encourage you to check out Brian Duvall’s detailed analysis and video walk-through of my own dental practice website. He has posted two videos where he goes into detail about the strategies he used to develop PaulHennyDDS.com for attracting clients, creating rapport, and generating leads.

Enjoy.

Why Most Dental Websites Don’t Attract Clients & How To Fix It

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This first of two videos was shared with the members of the Bob Barkley Study Club on Facebook by Dr. Paul Henny. In case you didn’t see it there, here it is again. Below the first video is another video and written notes where Brian shares more details of how his team is working with Dr. Henny to help attract more clients to his practice.

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Did you like that first video?

Here’s the rest of the “behind the scenes” tour of Dr. Henny’s site as promised.
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Key Points from the videos:

The vast majority of websites, including dental practice websites, are missing 4 critical element. Those elements are:

  1. An attention-grabbing headline that speaks to the strongest emotions of your ideal prospect. People take action when motivated by emotion then they justify their actions with logic. Your emotion-based headlines are meant to keep your website visitor reading and wanting to explore more on your site.
  2. An irresistible offer with a clear call-to-action. Your offer should probably be information in the form of a video and / or e-book. The reason why you give your prospect this info is so that you build rapport, showcase your expertise, position yourself as a leading authority, all while meeting their immediate need for information.
  3. A way for your prospect to get your offer. This is typically an email opt-in form where they enter their name and email to get instant access to download your e-book. This is how they let you know they’re interested in your services without calling you. It’s up to you and your staff to follow-up in a timely manner to answer questions and set the appointment.
  4. Use the Golden Ratio for writing your marketing messages. The reason why you should use the Golden Ratio is to guarantee that your writing speaks to your website visitor on a personal level and avoids sounding like a brochure. You should use the words “You and Your” three times of often as you use the words “I, Me, Mine, We, and Our.”

We also recommend that you use video to educate, empower and entice your local market so that they get to know, like and trust you BEFORE they contact you.

Download The Golden Ratio worksheet.

Ten Key Leadership Behaviors

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Effective leadership in patient-centered / relationship-based dentistry can be defined by the following 10 Leadership Behaviors. How do you and your leadership team measure up?

1. Focused: Great leaders stay focused on the big picture and how what is currently happening relates to it. Consequently, they do not “major in minors” and get drawn into unimportant side issues which distract and diminish their time and energy. They stay “on task”, and that task is represented via the execution of the vision and mission.

2. Confident: A clear vision, based on clarified values leads to clarity in decision-making, and consequently- decisiveness. This does not mean that every decision is the right one, but when the need for course corrections becomes apparent, the corrections are made quickly and decisively.

3. Transparent: Meaningful trust is an organic outgrowth of authenticity. When we ask our Care Team and patients to follow our lead …our recommendations or direction… we are attempting to leverage trust. Trust is a gift given by those being led, and the pathway to real trust runs through transparency.

4.Integrous: Transparency reflects a “full reveal” of our deeply held values. Living those values represents integrity. Aligning your team with those values amplifies your capacity to execute the mission day-in, and day-out.

5. Inspiring: Leaders are driven. When you add together clarified values, transparency, and personal integrity, you become inspiring to others who seek clarity, and values-driven decision making.

6. Passionate: Inspiring leaders are passionate about their mission. Without passion for your work, you will never be able to inspire others. And without the ability to inspire others, you will have to settle for whatever life drops in your lap.

7. Innovative: Great leaders must be innovative thinkers today. Market forces and trends are changing so rapidly that failing to strategically plan for the future can easily doom a business to extinction.

8. Patient: Patience represents the courage required to test your commitment to your vision. If your vision is bold enough, there will be hundreds of reasons why “it can’t be done”, and hundreds of doubters telling you so. Successful people succeed, and they do so often by being patient and committed.

9. Stoic: Stoicism in this case is emotional intelligence. Every day we are confronted with situations and circumstances which test our composure and resolve. Anticipating these realities and training our minds to regulate unhelpful instinctive responses is key to leadership success.

10. Empowering: Top performing Care Teams are in reality a community of people who share common values, goals, and commitment to a well-defined purpose. This sense of community is developed through the encouragement of personal growth, delegation, support, and the symbiotic harnessing of personal power. Great practices are a community accomplishment only possible through empowering leadership.

Paul A Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

Read more at www.codiscovery.com

Know Yourself

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“Know Yourself” was a famous Greek aphorism adopted by Dr. Pankey. He taught us that we must be realistic about ourselves if we want to be truly successful.

So what are your strengths? What are your weaknesses? What are the blind spots for which you need to compensate? And do you have emotional triggers which can release a set of behaviors capable of burning your best intentions to the ground?

“Knowing yourself” is step one. Only after you achieve confidence in your abilities through greater self-awareness ( high self-regard not simply high self-esteem) will you begin to develop a greater capacity to wisely utilize your unique personal resources and create your preferred future.

Paul A. Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, © 2017

Read more at www.codiscovery.com

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