Authenticity Matters

Build your relationships first….then your dentistry. ~ Bob Barkley

Authenticity Matters

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It’s not easy being sensitive and insightful in today’s fast-paced world, as flashy, quick, manipulative, and glib behavior is rewarded much more quickly than thoughtful, introspective, non-attention-seeking behavior.

For example, consider the pressure employee-physicians are under today to spend eight minutes or less with each patient, that’s 60 patients a day…or more.

No time for active listening, no time for feeling, and no time for intuiting…only time for decision-making based on a very limited perception of what is truly going on.

Immersion in this environment, day after day…week after week…year after year…leads the physician to learn that there is no time for caring…only time ACTING and action.

Are there exceptions? Absolutely, but the truth is that more and more of the masters of interpersonal communication and true facilitators of healing are retiring early, leaving medicine, or trying to relaunch solo independent practices. In other words, the are leaving the procedure-driven “state-of-the-art”, “evidence-based” and industrialized version of medicine.

Those who can adapt stay. Those who are in so much debt that they can not leave – stay. And those who can not tolerate it any longer – go. Those who leave are often replaced with technocrats who know a lot more about corporate policy and its systems than the art of healing. But even a technocrat has a heart, albeit denied or buried…

You see, there is a price we pay for abandoning our true nature in favor of acting like a drone. And in spite of what the culture seems to demand, we can’t overestimate the value of insight and authenticity. If we fail to acknowledge this truth, we risk failing to know ourselves in any significant way, and subsequently fail to realize our vision and find our purpose because we have no idea what to look for or what to build.

And all of this means failing to grow in any meaningful way, which then leads to regression, repression, addiction, diversion, and an unhappy and perhaps foreshortened life.

As dentists today, we have a choice as to whether or not to follow our medical colleagues down the rabbit hole of industrialized health care insensitivity. Let’s hope that more and more of us choose not to go there and instead choose to maintain their humanity to everyone’s benefit.

Paul A Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, © 2017

Transactions or Health-centered Relationships?

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If you had a sore throat and were running a mild fever, you would likely seek out medical care. And today, the location of that care could take on many different forms – some being very convenient.

So a decision would be made…perhaps your regular doctor’s office is closed or unavailable, so how about trying the doc-in-a-box down by the grocery store? The PA there was really nice when little Jimmy got into poison ivy over the summer…

And as long as our perception of our situation is that it is simple and routine, most of us would have no hesitation seeking care from someone who does not know us and vice-versa.

But rarely do we consider in that circumstance, that the person or place we are seeking care may not share our values, or goals with regard to treatment. Nor do we consider -on the front end- what their philosophy of care might be.

Are they interested in identifying the cause of our illness, or are they primarily focused on alleviating the symptoms so they can move on to the next person in line?

And do they have overlaid on top of all of this, production goals which are dictated by the corporate ownership?

You can see the obvious parallels to dentistry here. And as corporations continue to infiltrate dentistry for profit, how will our profession’s reputation be affected? And how will patients be viewed and treated? Will patients just be viewed as just another potential revenue stream?

I recently saw a live podcast on Facebook from a well-known dentist who teaches on a national level. And he said, “It’s getting to the point where dentists can no longer make a good living by simply doing crowns and fillings – they need to add other services.”

This gave me pause, as there was no implication from him that the relationship between patients and dentists was about much more than what kind of living we can make off of them.

There was no discussion of what patients want and how to help them discover it.

There was no discussion of what patients need and how to help them desire it.

There was no discussion about how patients feel and how we can facilitate the good and avoid the bad.

There wasn’t even a discussion relating treatment to health.

The entire focus of the conversation was about money, as if dentistry was nothing more than a commoditized service.

And if the public in general comes to realize that many in dentistry today are more personal income -centered than health-centered, than our professional status has been surrendered to the money changers, and we now must live by THEIR philosophy.

And that makes me sad.

But it also reminds me that in front of us lies a huge opportunity for those who choose to become more patient-centered, and more health-centered, as many people will seek us out after the the indifferent or superficial doc-in-the-box experience, and their problem was never satisfactorily addressed, much-the-less even discussed.

Paul A. Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

Read more at www.codiscovery.com

Plans Are Useless, But Planning – Priceless

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The key part of the successful long-term management of a relationship-based, health-centered practice is strategic development:

In what direction should we attempt to grow? What technologies and trends should we commit to following? Which ones should we abandon? And what emerging market trends are worth pursuing?

So, strategic planning must begin with awareness – awareness of where we are, where we want to go, what is important to us, and what is happening around us.

From there, an unrestricted envisioning of an optimal future is created while taking into consideration your values, mission, and intuition. This is a fully right brain activity.

It is expansive.

It is highly qualitative.

But what comes next, is rarely discussed. It’s a step that the Stoic philosophers like Marcus Aurelius and Seneca called “premeditatio malorum”, which translates into “premeditation of evils”.

This next step envisions the negative things which can happen and barriers present while attempting to execute our strategic plan. And it might include, compromises to our health, weather damage to our facility, loss of a strategic ally, inadequate funding, or the retirement of a key team member

The Stoics believed that by first imagining the worst case scenario ahead of time, they could more easily overcome their fears of potential negative experiences, and consequently make better strategic plans, as well as calm their limbic brains and better keep themselves in creative thinking mode when obstacles occurred on their pathway toward the Vision.

This way of thinking, where we consider the opposite of what we actually want to happen is also called “inversion”. And it is both important and powerful, because if we focus on the opposite of what we are trying to achieve, the solutions to our real goals often come more easily to us.

Inversion is a mental trick used by many great thinkers. Great thinkers and innovators think forwards and backwards, because the process tends to yield unconventional solutions to complex problems.

Consequently, strategic planning isn’t just daydreaming about an optimal future -it is that PLUS a hard dose of reality. And when envisioning and reality are combined in the right order (right brain thinking first then followed by left brain thinking) more adaptive and adaptable plans are created.

Just remember, strategic planning is a process not an event, where a plan is a set and fixed thing. Planning is ongoing and ongoing plans require analysis and adjustments all along the way.

To this thought Eisenhower wisely said , “Plans are worthless, but planning is essential.”

Paul A Henny DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, @2018

Read more www.codiscovery.com

It’s All About Relationships

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Recent research in the social sciences confirms what we have always assumed, that longevity and happiness are not only linked to healthy lifestyles, but to habits of positive social engagement.

My mother would say “They are givers, not just takers”, and they also pass these attributes on to their children, because….well, that is who they are!

These folks buck today’s meta-trend of consuming more, contributing less, and living a silo-type of existence. And we meet them every day in our practices, love them, and feel tremendous loss when they finally pass.

They know a simple life secret, and share it in the wide open. That is, they know that contributing, no matter how simple it seems, allows them to derive a sense of self-worth out of life, and to pass it on.

And when you add up all of those small contributions, hour after hour, day after day, year after year, you end up with the smiling and joking Betty or Bob, and the one who is first to give you a hug when you have had a bad day or personal tragedy.

They alter the course of everyone’s life around them by bringing a laugh, a smile, strength, courage, and hope.

They are miracle makers.

Compare this now to what is happening to our culture and kids on a broad scale, as we spend increasingly more time-consuming more, contributing less, and feeling more and more empty along the way.

As health-centered / relationship-based dentists, we are in an increasingly unique position to listen, deeply care, and help others in the simplest or most complex ways. But it is only possible if we choose to do so…to see dentistry as being as much about feelings as it is about teeth and technology…and to personally act on this truth.

L. D. Pankey taught us this, Bob Barkley taught us this, so why are so many of us choosing not to heed this simple and critical secret to a long, happy life?

Eleanor Roosevelt said, “When you cease to make a contribution, you begin to die.”

And she was right.

Paul A Henny, DDS

Copyright © 2017. Thought Experiments, LLC.

What is Practice Culture?

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A preferred future in dentistry begins with “the end in mind”, but it is important to understand that it is the outcome of a carefully and intentionally created practice culture.

So what is a practice culture?

Practice culture is the habitual and self-reinforcing behavior of team members as a consequence of the structure of the social systems associated with a practice.

And practice culture is an OUTCOME of practice climate, which is how team members FEEL about that organization’s social structure.

So, when we design an organizational structure – consciously or not – buy one, or even enter into one, we are participating in a social ecosystem which renders out a culture. And it is that culture which influences the patients more than anything else.

When patients are reluctant to schedule appointments with you, it is likely because of your practice culture.

When patients regularly decline your appropriate treatment plans, it is likely because of your practice’s culture.

And of course, the opposite is true as well.

Take a moment today and consider your practice culture. Is it what you intend for it to be? And if not, what structural changes can you make to improve it?

Paul A Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, 2017

Read more at www.codiscovery.com

Begin with Positivity

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Positive thinking sometimes sounds trite and impossible, particularly at times of great challenge. After all, it’s pretty hard to “fake it till you make it” when there is no money in the bank, or your child is in the hospital with an undiagnosed illness.

So what’s the point?

Research is beginning to reveal that positive thinking is about much more than just being happy or displaying an upbeat attitude.

We have known for a long time that negative thinking tends to cause us to focus on the negative emotions of fear, anger, and stress. In other words, it triggers our survival instinct.

This of course is useful if the threat is real and imminent, but what if the threat is only imagined?

It doesn’t matter – your response is the same. Creative problem-solving is off the table – and fight or flight ( overtly or covertly ) becomes the primary psychological agenda.

Now, consider how this issue influences new patient behavior:

A person enters a new environment that they have never seen, smelled, or heard before. Their sensory system is on high alert. Add to this a memory of when they were hurt or felt out of control.

Fight or flight kicks in.

The patient education video playing in the waiting room?

“Horrifying!”

The sound of handpieces and suction?

“Oh my God!”

That dental office smell?

“I am feeling really anxious!”

The kindness of your staff?

They can’t feel it.

Your best recommendations?

They can’t hear it.

Instead, a mostly fabricated tape loop plays in their head – telling them to be aware that all their previous horrors may be about to begin again.

This is why we must make every effort to craft our new patient’s initial experience with us to be as unlike their previous negative dental appointments as possible. This is why initially meeting patients in treatment spaces is a bad strategy. This is why discussing treatment plans and options in treatment spaces is often unproductive.

In many cases the sights, sounds, and smells in these areas trigger memories, which then trigger negative emotions, which then trigger their right side creative problem solving mind to shut down. Instead, their thoughtless limbic system ramps up.

Fight?

Flight?

How do I get out of here as fast as possible?

Perhaps by saying yes to what I think the dentist wants to hear!

Consider all of this.

Re-organize your new patient experience so that at every possible turn from marketing to phone contact, to initial greeting to discussion of findings, they ALL STIMULATE positive feelings like hope, safety, caring, and control…positive right brain functioning, not negative limbic functioning.

Can this be achieved every single time? No, but you would be surprised at how often it works. And every time it works, you are one step closer to “yes”, and they are one step closer to a higher level of health and functioning.

Paul A Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2016

Read more at www.Codiscovery.com

A Man Whose Thinking Was Well Ahead of His Time

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In 1972, Bob Barkley in his book Successful Preventive Dental Practices stated, “Only a totally new health-centered philosophy of dentistry at all levels of society can avert a collision with mediocrity on a world-wide basis.”

By this statement, Bob was directly referring to the extreme limitations that our profession has on conveying optimal health to others. In fact dentistry can not convey health at all – and Bob was quite keen to this truth. This realization came after years of his own observation of patients. Bob observed that for some patients, no matter what kind of repairs he employed, they still declined in their dental health condition.

This of course is an observation which we have all made after just a few years of practice, and after some of our idealism-inspired vision of saving the world through dentistry has rubbed off.

And like Bob, we realized that is what the patient does -or does not do- at home that has a much greater impact on the longevity of our work than what we do. We have all seen cases where substandard care survives well due to patient efforts. We have also seen some of our scrupulously fine work undermined by decay in a matter of just a few years in spite of what we say or do for the patient.

Bob further stated in his book, “A preventive-corrective approach can only work if the dentist is able to nurture the patient’s latent sense of responsibility so that he may become independently healthy.”

And this “nurturing of the patient’s latent sense” is only possible through the establishment of a truly helping relationship – one where the care giver understands the patient so well on both an emotional and physical level, that they can fine-tune the patient’s experience each time to better lead them toward greater and greater levels of independent health…health that the patient is ultimately rendering onto themselves.

So that is our charge, laid down to us now some 45 years later. Can we develop and implement a “new heath-centered philosophy” in our practice which facilitates in our patients movement toward health, and to see dentistry as a resource in that pursuit instead of only a place they go when they need to be to be rescued?

It’s not easy – giving up the power and control involved in practicing dentistry in a traditional fashion (and with it the illusion that we can give health to others), but it is indeed essential.

Paul A Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

Read more at www.codiscovery.com

Your Future – Your Choice

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Imagine a corporate dental practice model with a size and a business model which is unique – and unstoppable.

A vertically integrated model which will likely own thousands of dental practices and manage tens of thousands of patient calls a day through a call center. Additionally, imagine them building mega-multi specialty state-of-the-art clinics around the country which they will then fill with both dentists and patients.

Imagine them designing their own proprietary software to coordinate all activity, and them importing and making their own supplies and equipment in China and elsewhere. Imagine a clinic in Dubai and elsewhere, and imagine all of it being done debt-free with investment dollars flowing from overseas.

A complete fantasy and not in my lifetime you say? The picture here is that of an existing Ortho department in one of these mega clinics about ready to open right here in the U.S..

The floor? Custom marble imported from their own company in China. The light fixtures? Patented and made by their own company. The dental equipment? Ditto.

This is no fantasy. This is the future of dentistry. And everyone practicing today needs to be looking over the hill and strategically planning for how they will fit into it, or planning how they will be leaving it, because there is no one who will be able to compete AGAINST what I have just described.

In the 1980’s Avrom King told us that the market would differentiate into three tiers, and that only the top tier -Tier III would remain as a viable independent business model. It represents relationship-based / health-centered care, and it can’t be imported from China.

What will your future in dentistry look like? The time to be thinking about it is now, and time to choose is now.

Paul A Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

Read more@ www.codiscovery.com

Your Practice – A Living Social System

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A truly patient-centered, health relationship-based practice is an organically growing social ecosystem. In some ways, it is like a massive healthy rose bush, which must first be planted in the right soil, located so that it receives the appropriate amount of light, and then fed, pruned, and allowed to fully blossom into glory.

And like rose bushes, our practices face real constraints and challenges from the outside. We have a limited amount of time, energy, money, and attention to expend each day, and while all of that is going on, new ideas and opportunities come along (new buds), while simultaneously dated ideas and even unproductive relationships (old buds) which have never properly developed…need to be pruned away so that they will not exhaust or divert our limited resources.

I favor the rose bush analogy because it brings up something which is rarely discussed in dental practice development- the important distinction between “production” and “effectiveness”, because we can produce good numbers while failing to fully advance our intended Purpose. And the truth is that our practice can only reach its full potential if we cut out approaches, assumptions, systems, and even people which are “working ok” but are not great – they are just not as good as they should be.

And that is a really hard thing to do without a clear vision of where we want to go, a clear understanding of where we are now, and a good sense of what needs to change to keep moving things along in the right direction.

Most dental practices, like rose bushes, are productive on some level, but if left unpruned lead to a tangled mess of old and new ideas, technologies, relationships, equipment, concepts, all competing for resources.

“Pruning”, through regularly revisiting our vision, and revisiting our strategic plan is the only way to allow our best ideas, gifts, talents, and opportunities to flourish.

And when we flourish, our best patients… the ones who are in alignment with our practice purpose (or headed that way) flourish as well.

Paul A Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

Read more at: www.codiscovery.com

Pankey, Barkley, and Post-Behavioralism

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Richard Feynman is widely regarded as one of the top ten physicists of all time. He assisted in the Manhattan Project, has been credited with pioneering the field of quantum computing, and helped introduce the concept of nanotechnology to the world.

At one point, Feynman started working on a new theory of beta decay because his experiments were rendering out different results than what many others claimed to be true.

Feynman went back and investigated the original study on which all of the “experts” based their conclusions, and discovered that the original study was flawed; he discovered that the so-called “truth” was actually nothing more than a bunch of “experts” quoting each other, and then using their mutual opinions to justify their pet theory.

Such is the nature of physics, biology, science, and psychology – where “truth” is a moving object based on current knowledge challenged by skepticism and then influenced by more knowledge over time.

A similar situation occurred in dentistry with regard to psychology, a favorite topic of both L.D. Pankey, and Bob Barkley. To a large degree, Pankey and Barkley were the Robert Feynmans’ of their day. They observed behavior patterns in patients and noticed that the accepted psychological dogma failed to line up with the way that many people actually behaved.

Why don’t people choose to restore their mouths after being presented with irrefutable logic that they should? (and based on a “case presentation”)

You see, dentistry has historically been influenced by behavioristic psychology – the concept that man was a reactive organism or a robot simply influenced by facts.

But anyone who has practiced dentistry for a day knows this is inaccurate. We see people make seemingly irrational decisions all the time. We see behavior that does not follow logic. We see free will in action.

Pankey and Barkley consequently explored the possibility that people were predictably unpredictable – and why. They explored the true motivators behind decision-making, the areas of learning, self-interest, emotion, and readiness.

And as a result, both Pankey and Barkley became masters at helping others make better decisions, and became legends along the way. They rejected established thinking that the simple exposure to logical information leads to learning. They instead focused on HOW people learn and HOW to facilitate that process more and more effectively.

And with that knowledge, they were able to create philosophy-centered practices and help people in ways that others could not.

How has the work of Drs. Pankey and Barkley helped your practice?

Paul A Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

Read more at www.codiscovery.com

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