Do You Know Your Patient’s Philosophy?

Build your relationships first….then your dentistry. ~ Bob Barkley

Do You Know Your Patient’s Philosophy?

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We all have five natural resources: Time, Energy, Money, Opportunities, and Gifts.

And each of us is unique in terms of how much of these resources we have available, as well as how we choose to leverage them to advance ourselves, our values and our priorities. Consequently, we can learn a lot about ourselves and others by simply observing how these five resources are utilized over time.

This concept applies to our patients as well. Does their resource utilization pattern indicate that they value their total personal health? Do they seem to value their dental health specifically? Do they see a relationship between the two? Have they had an opportunity to see the relationship between the two? And consequently, is their personal philosophy toward health well aligned with your practice’s mission? And if not, is there still an opportunity for you to facilitate a change in their philosophy – and therefore their decisions and behavior?

At one point Bob Barkley decided that he was no longer going to share HIS philosophy with his patients until he first understood THEIRS. He recognized that he had influence over other people’s behavior only when he was able to establish a healthy collaborative relationship with them first. And to this point he famously stated, “Build your relationships first – then your dentistry.”

This is why observing, and occasionally probing the “why” behind how patients spend their time, energy, money, opportunities, and gifts is key.

If an individual is more loyal to their insurance plan than to your opinions, it makes a philosophical statement. If an individual has no time or desire to learn more about their dental health, it makes a philosophical statement. If an individual trusts your judgment and proceeds with your recommendations, it makes a philosophical statement.

And if we dial the view of an entire practice back to that of the Care Team’s general behavior, it also makes a statement. That statement is reflective of the practice’s philosophy – how it chooses to spend its time, energy, money, opportunities, and gifts.

What is your Practice Philosophy? Have you spent time clarifying it together as a Team? And do you take the time to understand your patient’s philosophy toward dentistry? Finally, how does your philosophy influence their philosophy?

Paul A. Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2018

It’s All About Growth

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If I were to select one word which is most closely associated with a successful Relationship-based, Health-centered practice, it would be the word growth.

What kind of growth?

Personal Growth.

Interpersonal Growth.

Care Team Member Growth.

Effectiveness and affectiveness of team growth.

Patient growth – in knowledge and sophistication of their attitudes and commitments toward dentistry.

And of course -practice growth.

Notice please than I did not mention a word about teeth or techniques. I didn’t mention a word about technology, or what you must physically own to achieve growth. And that is because growth is not a material thing, it is a spiritual thing.

Growth can be promoted, or it can be impaired by the way we think, and consequently the things that we do and say day-in and day-out.

And what we do repeatedly is driven by what we believe…what we believe about ourselves, what we believe about others, and what we believe about the purpose of dentistry.

In other words, dentistry is driven by our philosophy…our world view…our perspective of things, and therefore what it all means to us.

Avrom King said that it all boils down to these three questions:

1. Who am I?

2. Why am I here?

3 What is it that I am trying to achieve?

All three are philosophical questions. And all three lead us to answers which directly influence almost everything else.

If we do not understand who we are on a values and beliefs level – what Mac McDonald recently referred to as “the deep structures of ourselves” – we cannot predictably lead ourself in any desired direction. And as a result of that, we can not predictably lead others in a desired direction either.

So, you can see that in a world where our personal perspective is one of little personal agency, it is easy to assume that we have minimal value. And in a world of minimal personal value, everything starts to look scarce, and everything starts to look scary, so we are tempted to take short cuts; we are tempted to grab what we can for ourselves now.

If we believe the world is flat and that there is nothing that we can do about it, then we are likely to stay on shore, drown or feelings of disempowerment with a little too much wine and whining, and achieve little. And along the way we will attract toward us those who think and behave similarly – because like attracts like- King’s law in action.

We tend over time to create a practice in the exact image of what we believe. And it could be a version of heaven or hell that we create. And all of that happens because we chose to grow – or not.

How much growth is happening in your practice? Can you see the green shoots of enthusiasm and creative change all around you – the evidence of constant renewal? Or do you see an ossified structure struggling to maintain the status quo – and within it people who are down, frustrated, and thinking that they have no other choices?

Who are you?

Why are you here?

What is it that you are trying to achieve?

Philosophy Matters.

And that is why L.D. Pankey and Bob Barkley constantly talked about it.

Paul A, Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

Read more at www.codiscovery.com

Its All About Growth

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If I were to select one word which is most closely associated with a successful relationship-based, Health-centered practice, it would be the word growth. What kind of growth?

Personal Growth.

Interpersonal Growth.

Care Team Member Growth.

Effectiveness and affectiveness of team growth.

Patient growth – in knowledge and sophistication of their attitudes and commitments toward dentistry.

And of course -practice growth.

Notice please than I did not mention a word about teeth or techniques. I didn’t mention a word about technology or what you must physically own to achieve growth. And that is because growth is not a material thing, it is a spiritual thing.

Growth can be promoted or it can be impaired by the way we think, and consequently the things that we do and say day-in and day-out.

And what we do repeatedly is driven by what we believe…what we believe about ourselves, what we believe about others and what we believe about the  purpose of dentistry.

In other words, dentistry is driven by our philosophy…our world view…our perspective of things, and therefore what it all means to us.

Avrom King said that it all boils down to these three questions:

1. Who am I?

2. Why am I here?

3 What is it that I am trying to achieve?

All three philosophical questions. All three lead us to answers which directly influence almost everything else.

If we do not understand who we are on a values, priories, and beliefs level – what Mac McDonanald recently referred to as “the deep structures of ourselves – we can not possibly lead ourself in any desired  direction predictably . And as a result, we can not lead predictably others anywhere either.

So, you can then easily see that in a world where our personal perspective is one in that we believe we have little personal agency, It is easy for us to assume we have minimal value. And in a world of minimal value, everything looks scarce, and everything starts to look scary.

If we believe the world is flat and that there is nothing that we can do about it, then we are likely to stay on shore, drown or feelings of disempowerment with a little too much wine and whining, and achieve little.

And we will attract toward us those who think and behave similarly – because like attracts like.

So you can easily see how one can create a practice in the exact image of what we believe. And it could be a version heaven or hell that we create.

And it all happened because we chose to grow – or not.

How much growth is happening in your practice? Can you see the green shoots of enthusiasm and creative change all around you – evidence of constant renewal? Or do you see an ossified structure struggling to maintain the status quo?

Who are you?

Why are you here?

What is it that you are trying to achieve?

Philosophy Matters.

And that is why L.D. Pankey and Bob Barkley constantly talked about it.

Paul A, Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

Read more at www.codiscovery.com

 

What’s your Philosophy?

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Two realities are redefining the nature of today’s dental marketplace. First, the choices prospective patients face are increasing at an exponential rate – or they are totally disappearing, depending on where they live and their financial circumstances. And secondly, long-term truly helping relationships are being replaced with flashy, sales-oriented – and hence manipulative -interactions, where the central agenda of the business is the bottom line – always.

This shift has been largely driven by four forces:

1. Technology which now allows us to do more at a faster pace, and often with fewer people.

2. Cultural shifts where cynicism and personal experiences are tending to cause more and more people to view more and more aspects of their everyday lives as being transactional rather than relational.

3. “Insurance” reimbursement patterns and levels.

4.  And a trend toward reductionistic thinking, which fits neatly in with the above three trends, and advances the myth that if we can reduce everything down to its most basic component parts, isolate the problem, fix it, and reassemble everything, all will be well.

But there is a problem with this approach. It views heathcare through an industrialized lens – a lens which is particularly focused on costs and profits. And people are not machines. And people are not always rational. And people often require principle-centered leadership to become healthier.

(Notice that I said “leadership” and not “more sophisticated treatment.)

Reductionism is seductive because it is often immediately more efficient, and there are certainly times when it is the right approach. But it can come with a price, and the price is often effectiveness over the long-term on an invidual level Consequently, a reductionistic philosophy is not the orientation a healthcare professional should be taking on exclusively, as their patient’s needs -in a holistic sense, short and long term -should always be considered before the business’s financial needs come into play.

This is because heath itself is a holistic concept. It REQUIRES patient involvement. It REQUIRES patient participation. And it therefore REQUIRES healing, which is an inside-out process – facilitated perhaps – but still emerging FROM the patient.

Bob Barkley reminded us that we can not give heath to anyone. Sure, we can apply a broad range of elaborate curing methods TO them and ON them, but without the “WITH THEM” part, we can only improve their appearance or the data about them for a short period of time.

We must confront the simple truth that heath can not be achieved or attained in dentistry without a collaborative relationship between mutually caring people with shared values and goals.

Its just a fact.

These conditions point to why today’s most forward looking dentists and practices are moving beyond just seeking attention as their primary marketing strategy. They’re acutely aware that it’s not enough to simply have people know about them and their products and services. They know that they need people to choose them, support them, work with them, and recommend them for reasons far deeper than “faster”, “cheaper”, and “it looks like a nice place”.

Are you you promoting health and healing, or is your philosophy focused around making money through primarily promoting reductionalism?

The future will certainly tell.

Paul A Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

Read more at www.codiscovery.com

Live it (don’t just think it)

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There is an important distinction between “having” a philosophy and “living” a philosophy.

“Having” a philosophy implies that we can envision a better way of practicing and living, but it doesn’t necessarily mean those thoughts are being acted upon -that progress is being made in the direction of that vision. “Having” a philosophy therefore can functionally be little more than a dream.

“Living” a philosophy, or living with a clear sense of purpose, is about engaging life based on clarified values, on an accurate understanding of ourself, on a realistic view of the world around us, on a clear understanding of what we are trying to accomplish, and therefore focused on principle-centered goals.

Drs. Pankey and Barkley talked extensively about the need for us to clarify our practice philosophy and to apply it daily, but most of us dentists rarely think of ourselves as philosophers, consequently we struggle to see the true value behind deeply engaging in this type of internal work.

Their point was that living a life of greater purpose is an opportunity which lies right in front of each of us, and that a life full of greater emotional, spiritual, and financial reward lies there as well.

Our daily decisions are what drive us toward the future. And it is what we believe about ourself and the world around us -our philosophy toward living- which influences that direction more than anything else…the direction toward a greater or lesser purpose.

Today might be a perfect time to examine your personal philosophy and subsequent practice and life purpose.

Paul A. Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

Your Future – Your Responsibility

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After 32 years in dentistry, I’ve consulted with a lot dentists, many of whom were nearing a point of retirement, and some even leaving the profession entirely.

And of that group, many expressed regret, and would tell me something like, “I wish I had possessed the courage to run my practice the way I felt it should have been run, instead of chasing the constant down-cycle of the insurance industry.”

I Why is this such a common regret in a profession which offers so much opportunity for independence, deeply rewarding interpersonal helping, and creativity?

Most dentists have their personal life under control and pointed in a preferred direction. They live where they like, they send their children to optimal schools, they involve themselves in Church and sports.

They coach.

They work out.

They vacation in fine places.

They drive nice cars.

And this is all because they know they have the power to choose, and they “choose to choose”, as Avrom King used to say.

But why is practice life so different for most? Why are dentists in so many dependency relationships with insurance companies and therefore patients when they have the choice not to do so?

“Money”, you say?

“It just can’t be done any other way in my town!”

Really?

Are you sure about that?

In reality, most of us exited the dental school treadmill of producing “procedures” and “If I can just get through this last semester”, into a practice situation which was almost identical to it, rendering out a similar emotional response…

“I hate this, but I have no choice right now.”

We focus down on the present so intensely that we can’t see over the hill. In fact, we don’t even acknowledge that there is a hill and something preferable on the other side.

We become automatons…we check-in, we check-out. We check for emotional scars at then end of the day. We say to ourselves, “Made it through another one…When is that trip to St.Thomas?”

And here is the result:

If we never draw a line in the sand and clarify what is really important to us and what we want our professional life to become. We just keep looking down. We just keep punching the clock. And we keep looking for the next enjoyable distraction.

Big game on tonight!

Did you see that new BMW six-series?

The gray areas of life loom larger when we fail to clarify what we believe, when we fail to live life buttressed by a philosophy which influences our decisions and choices and therefore guides us toward what brings more joy and satisfaction.

Without a personal practice philosophy, we are forced to adopt one from our environment – we are forced to adopt the philosophy of the insurance company or the corporation. And we are forced to accept what THEIR philosophy does to our soul. Consequently, we become a slave to an unchosen future due to our own lack of personal and professional leadership.

When Bob Barkley was asked for the one thing that he would like to grant all dentists…the one wish he had for them, his answer was immediate, “I wish every dentist would create a clear and written practice philosophy”.

And all of the above reasons are why he felt that way.

Paul A Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

Read more at: www.codiscovery.com

On Philosophy

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There is an important distinction between “having” a philosophy and “living” a philosophy.

“Having” a philosophy implies that one has a vision of a better way of life, but it doesn’t necessarily mean that the thoughts are being acted upon…that progress is being made in the direction of that vision. “Having” a philosophy therefore can often represent little more than a dream.

“Living” a philosophy, or living with a clear sense of purpose, is about engaging life based on our values, on an accurate understanding of ourself, on a realistic view of the world around us, on a clear understanding of what we are trying to accomplish, focused on principle-centered goals, and by acting daily with integrity to support all of the above.

Drs. Pankey and Barkley talked extensively about the need to clarify our practice philosophy and to apply it daily. But most of us rarely think of ourselves as philosophers – particularly through our daily practice – so we struggle seeing the true value in deeply engaging ourselves in this type of internal work.

Their point was that living a life with greater purpose is often an opportunity which lies right in front of us. And consequently, the opportunity for a life full of emotional, spiritual, and financial reward lies there as well.

Approaching life from a “givers” perspective yields more back in return. It is a perspective of abundance – that loving and caring for others is a reciprocal experience and therefore inherently Win-Win.

Our daily decisions are what drive us toward our future. And it is what we believe about ourself and the world around us -our philosophy- which influences our direction toward a greater or lesser purpose.

Now is good time for you to examine or re-examine your personal philosophy, and subsequent practice and life purpose.

Take the challenge, because here on earth, you only live once.

Paul A. Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2016

Read more at www.CoDiscovery.com

Transactions or Health-centered Relationships?

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If you had a sore throat and were running a mild fever, you would likely seek out medical care. And today, the location of that care could take on many different forms – some being very convenient.

So a decision would be made…perhaps your regular doctor’s office is closed or unavailable, so how about trying the doc-in-a-box down by the grocery store? The PA there was really nice when little Jimmy got into poison ivy over the summer…

And as long as our perception of our situation is that it is simple and routine, most of us would have no hesitation seeking care from someone who does not know us and vice-versa.

But rarely do we consider in that circumstance, that the person or place we are seeking care may not share our values, or goals with regard to treatment. Nor do we consider -on the front end- what their philosophy of care might be.

Are they interested in identifying the cause of our illness, or are they primarily focused on alleviating the symptoms so they can move on to the next person in line?

And do they have overlaid on top of all of this, production goals which are dictated by the corporate ownership?

You can see the obvious parallels to dentistry here. And as corporations continue to infiltrate dentistry for profit, how will our profession’s reputation be affected? And how will patients be viewed and treated? Will patients just be viewed as just another potential revenue stream?

I recently saw a live podcast on Facebook from a well-known dentist who teaches on a national level. And he said, “It’s getting to the point where dentists can no longer make a good living by simply doing crowns and fillings – they need to add other services.”

This gave me pause, as there was no implication from him that the relationship between patients and dentists was about much more than what kind of living we can make off of them.

There was no discussion of what patients want and how to help them discover it.

There was no discussion of what patients need and how to help them desire it.

There was no discussion about how patients feel and how we can facilitate the good and avoid the bad.

There wasn’t even a discussion relating treatment to health.

The entire focus of the conversation was about money, as if dentistry was nothing more than a commoditized service.

And if the public in general comes to realize that many in dentistry today are more personal income -centered than health-centered, than our professional status has been surrendered to the money changers, and we now must live by THEIR philosophy.

And that makes me sad.

But it also reminds me that in front of us lies a huge opportunity for those who choose to become more patient-centered, and more health-centered, as many people will seek us out after the the indifferent or superficial doc-in-the-box experience, and their problem was never satisfactorily addressed, much-the-less even discussed.

Paul A. Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

Read more at www.codiscovery.com

A Practice Philosophy is Key

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Dental practices which fail to clearly communicate their Philosophy of Care force their patients into making decisions based primarily on the empirical evidence available to them at the moment.

This is because without the big picture that a clearly and simply communicated philosophy can paint, the patient will be unable to put what they are learning into the proper context. Evidence without a related philosophy lacks significant meaning, and may be acquired from you, the internet, or the guy on the street. And this is why decisions for patients under these circumstances are so difficult and often confusing for them. The evidence available to the patient (from their perspective) appears to be full of fog because it often contains cognitive distortions, misinformation, and distractions.

A practice Philosophy is the WHY, and the WHY is the compelling narrative which brings meaning to the HOW. And when only empirical evidence is available to drive a decision, the patient is forced to focus on HOW MUCH (time, energy, inconvenience, discomfort) and WHO IS GOING TO PAY FOR THIS? …All left brain thinking….all non-creative problem solving…all here-and-now oriented rather than future-focused. And all therefore – limiting and likely to lead toward a non-optimal decision.

Clearly communicating Philosophy is the key to turning this corner. It is what Aristotle referred to as “Ethical Proof”, which must be present along with emotional and logical proofs – particularly when a complex and expensive decision must be made.

But here is the catch: A practice philosophy is a useless piece of paper if it is not owned and lived by every member of the Care Team. It must be LIVED. The Team must BE IT, and not just SAY IT. Most patients are smart enough to sense incongruity between the message and the messenger, and when they do, they decline…they pause… the defer. BEING IT is only possible through lot of team Building and clarity, and BEING IT is the only pathway to success.

Einstein famously said: “If you can’t explain something simply, than you don’t understand it enough.” And sometimes explaining it at the right moment just takes a nod, a smile, or a hug, because the helping relationship – the vehicle through which the philosophy was already communicated – had already been built.

Understand that, and you are well in your way to experiencing a fun and fulfilling health-centered practice.

Paul A Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

Read more at www.codiscovery.com

The Philosophical Paradox

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Life is full of paradoxes, seemingly self-contradictory statements or situations which ultimately are found to be true – and the practice of dentistry is no exception.

One of my most favored paradoxes of late is the fact that every relationship-based / health-centered practice must develop a written Philosophy Statement, which can critically function as the practice’s constitution.

Bob Barkley said, that creating and writing this Statement represented the single most important thing that a truly patient-centered practice can do.

But therein lies paradox #1:

Even though writing a Philosophy Statement is essential, it is only valuable if it is a “living” document created by individuals who truly believe in what it represents. In other words, a Philosophy Statement is a SYMBOLIC representation of how the team feels, and consequently what they are willing to struggle to attain (including how they chose to live). And because a Philosophy Statement is symbolic, the words themselves are somewhat meaningless – particularly to others except through their EXPERIENCING of what they mean.

And this is where we left brain-leaning dentists can easily get hung up, as most of us have been enculturated in the behavioralist tradition, where we believe that people are reactionary, or should predictably respond to our logic.

This mindset, particularly when recently empowered by a a largely emotion-derived Philosophy Statement, causes us to want to tell the world and recite it to our new patients like the Gettysburg Address.

But at that moment, it is wise to pause and recall the truism, “No one is more dangerous than the newly anointed”, as too often in those situations, what we intend with our actions is often perceived very differently.

So this brings us to paradox #2:

“I learned that the less I told my patients about my philosophy of dentistry, and what I could do for them, the more interested the patients became in really thinking about themselves and accepting responsibility for there health.” – Robert F. Barkley

So the less we tell patients -the more they learn IF we create an optimal environment for that learning to occur. And the less we tell patients about OUR philosophy (but instead focus on allowing them to experience it), the more the the patient will “acquire a philosophy of their own” which is in greater alignment with their clarifying values.

And it is through problem ownership that the desire for a preferred future emerges, along with the will to see it through.

Paul A Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

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