Experiential Learning is Key

Build your relationships first….then your dentistry. ~ Bob Barkley

Experiential Learning is Key

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We all have goals in our lives, and so do our patients. These goals may include learning a new technique, losing weight, saving money, or attaining a healthy attractive smile.

And it is easy to assume that the gap between where we are now, and where we want to be in the future, is caused by a lack of knowledge. It is also easy to assume that the same issue exists with our patients…that they just need to be informed more…that they “need to be educated” more.

But the reality is that knowledge alone rarely influences or drives behavior. In fact, new information may actually undercut progress toward change.

How so?

It all comes down to our personal and cultural bias toward ‘cognitivism’ – the belief that left brain objective facts and truths cause people to learn and therefore change.

But it simply does not work that way.

Learning something new and being exposed to new information are two VERY different things. Carl Rogers brilliantly explored this topic in his landmark book, ‘Freedom to Learn’, a book about the importance of experiential learning.

In many cases, the constant exposure to new information can be a clever way for us to avoid taking action. We studiously watch the news every night, but do nothing with the knowledge. We take course after course, but on Monday mornings, the routines and rituals resume. We even see patients bounce from one “second opinion” to another, seemingly stalemated.

In situations like these, we and our patients often claim that we are preparing or researching for the best answer, but such thinking is often just a rationalization to ourselves that we are moving forward when in actuality we are going nowhere, coddled in our bubble of the latest and greatest information steaming from the world’s greatest thinkers.

Acquiring knowledge and failing to apply it has become a multimillion dollar info-tainment industry in dentistry. And the fun locations, great socializing and food can all be expensed!

But what happens at the end of the day? A record number of CE credits to brag about? Another notch on the belt for studying under the latest guru?

Carl Rogers taught us that the highest levels of significant learning must include personal involvement at both the affective and cognitive levels, be self-initiated and so pervasive that it changes attitudes, behavior, and in some cases, even the personality of the learner.

New behavior emerges out of new beliefs, which are anchored in our values, and which create new meanings which then shape our habits.

It is our habits – not our knowledge which shape our lives. And it is habits -not knowledge- which shape the lives of our patients as well.

Paul A Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, © 2016

On Dentistry’s Future

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Imagine a corporate dental practice model with a size and a business model which is unique – and unstoppable.

A vertically integrated model which will likely own thousands of dental practices and manage tens of thousands of patient calls a day through a call center. Additionally, imagine them building mega-multi specialty state-of-the-art clinics around the country which they will then fill with both dentists and patients.

Imagine them designing their own proprietary software to coordinate all activity, and them importing and making their own supplies and equipment in China and elsewhere. Imagine a clinic in Dubai and elsewhere, and imagine all of it being done debt-free with investment dollars flowing from overseas.

A complete fantasy and not in my lifetime you say? The picture here is that of an existing Ortho department in one of these mega clinics about ready to open right here in the U.S..

The floor? Custom marble imported from their own company in China. The light fixtures? Patented and made by their own company. The dental equipment? Ditto.

This is no fantasy. This is the future of dentistry. And everyone practicing today needs to be looking over the hill and strategically planning for how they will fit into it, or planning how they will be leaving it, because there is no one who will be able to compete AGAINST what I have just described.

In the 1980’s Avrom King told us that the market would differentiate into three tiers, and that only the top tier -Tier III would remain as a viable independent business model. It represents relationship-based / health-centered care, and it can’t be imported from China.

So, it turns out that Avrom was spot-on in his projections.

What do you plan to do about it?

Paul A Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2016

Pogo Was Right

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We are quick to blame our environment when things go poorly. If our practice is struggling, it’s because the economy sucks. If a patient declines our brilliant treatment plan, they have “low dental IQ”. If our child’s team loses a game, it’s because of bad officiating. If we are late to the office, it’s because other people were blocking our way.

When we win, however, we tend to ignore the environment completely. If a new patient says “yes”, it’s because we are talented and likable. If we surpass our production goals, it’s because we are an “A Team”. If we arrive early for the morning huddle, it’s because we are organized and always prompt.

Winston Churchill famously said, “We shape our buildings, thereafter they shape us.”

So too is it true with our environment.

Our environment at home and at the office represent a series of choices, based on our acted-upon values…how we repeatedly choose to spend our time, energy, and money.

From this perspective then, we can view what happens at home and at the office as one giant ecosystem we largely designed. And since we designed it, we can change it -if we really want to.

But sometimes complaining is easier, because it blame-shifts. It conveniently moves the locus of our problems off onto someone or something else.

This car is driving me crazy! Why are they only driving the speed limit?

That patient wasted my time, they didn’t even bother to schedule after all the time I spent explaining things to them!

My hygienist never seems to care about anyone but herself!

Pogo famously said, “We have met the enemy, and he is us”.

And he was right.

If there are some aspects regarding your practice and personal life which you do not like, the answer likely greets you in the mirror each and every morning.

Paul A. Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2016

On Positive Thinking

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Positive thinking sometimes sounds trite and impossible, particularly at times of great challenge. After all, it’s pretty hard to “fake it till you make it” when there is no money in the bank or your child is in the hospital with an undiagnosed illness.

So what’s the point?

Research is beginning to reveal that positive thinking is about much more than just being happy or displaying an upbeat attitude.

We have known for a long time that negative thinking tends to cause us to focus on the negative emotions of fear, anger, and stress. In other words, it triggers our survival instinct.

This of course is useful if the threat is real and imminent, but what if the threat is only imagined?

It doesn’t matter – your response is the same. Creative problem-solving is off the table – and fight or flight ( overtly or covertly ) becomes the primary psychological agenda.

Now, consider how this issue influences new patient behavior:

A person enters a new environment that they have never seen, smelled, or heard before. Their sensory system is on high alert. Add to this a memory of when they were hurt or felt out of control.

Fight or flight kicks in.

The patient education video playing in the waiting room?

“Horrifying!”

The sound of handpieces and suction?

“Oh my God!”

That dental office smell?

“I am feeling really anxious!”

The kindness of your staff?

They can’t feel it.

Your best recommendations?

They can’t hear it.

Instead, a mostly fabricated tape loop plays in their head – telling them to be aware that all their previous horrors may be about to begin again.

This is why we must make every effort to craft our new patient’s initial experience with us to be as unlike their previous negative dental appointments as possible. This is why initially meeting patients in treatment spaces is a bad strategy. This is why discussing treatment plans and options in treatment spaces is often unproductive.

In many cases the sights, sounds, and smells in these areas trigger memories, which then trigger negative emotions, which then trigger their right side creative problem solving mind to shut down. Instead, their thoughtless limbic system ramps up.

Fight?

Flight?

How do I get out of here as fast as possible?

Perhaps by saying yes to what I think the dentist wants to hear!

Consider all of this.

Re-organize your new patient experience so that at every possible turn from marketing to phone contact, to initial greeting to discussion of findings, they ALL STIMULATE positive feelings like hope, safety, caring, and control…positive right brain functioning, not negative limbic functioning.

Can this be achieved every single time? No, but you would be surprised at how often it works. And every time it works, you are one step closer to “yes”, and they are one step closer to a higher level of health and functioning.

Paul A Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2016

Why Philosophy is Important

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After 32 years in dentistry, I’ve consulted with a lot of dentists, many of whom were nearing a point of retirement, or leaving the profession entirely.

And of that group, many expressed regret, and would tell me something like, “I wish I had possessed the courage to run my practice the way I felt it should have been run, instead of chasing the constant down-cycle of the insurance industry.”

Why is this such a common regret in a profession which offers so much opportunity for independence, deeply rewarding interpersonal helping, and creativity?

Most dentists have their personal life under control and pointed in a preferred direction. They live where they like, they send their children to optimal schools, they involve themselves in Church and sports.

They coach.

They work out.

They vacation in fine places.

They drive nice cars.

And this is all because they know they have the power to choose, and they “choose to choose”, as Avrom King used to say.

But why is practice life so different for most? Why are dentists in so many dependency relationships with insurance companies and therefore patients when they have the choice not do so?

“Money”, you say?

“It just can’t be done any other way in my town!”

Really?

Are you sure about that?

In reality, most of us exited the dental school treadmill of producing “procedures” and “If I can just get through this last semester”, into a practice situation which was almost identical to it, rendering out a similar emotional response…

“I hate this, but I have no choice right now.”

We focus down on the present so intensely that we can’t see over the hill. In fact we don’t even acknowledge that there is a hill and something preferable on the other side.

We become automatons…we check-in, we check-out. We check for emotional scars at then end of the day. We say to ourselves, “Made it through another one…When is that trip to St.Thomas?”

And here is the result:

If we never draw a line in the sand and clarify what is really important to us and what we want our professional life to become, we just keep looking down. We just keep punching the clock. And we keep looking for the next enjoyable distraction.

Big game on tonight!

Did you see that new BMW six-series?

The gray areas of life loom larger when we fail to clarify what we believe, when we fail to live life buttressed by a philosophy which influences our decisions and choices.

Without a personal practice philosophy, we are forced to adopt one from our environment. We are forced to adopt the philosophy of the insurance company or the corporation. And we are forced to accept what THEIR philosophy does to us.

We are forced to become a slave to our own lack of personal and professional leadership.

When Bob Barkley was asked for the one thing that he would like to grant all dentists…the one wish he had for them, his answer was immediate, “I wish every dentist would create a clear and written practice philosophy”.

And all of the above reasons are why he felt that way.

Paul A Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2016

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On Life Balance

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Imagine your life as a metaphorical four burner gas stove top, with each burner representing a major quadrant of your life, and those quadrants being :

FAMILY CAREER

HEALTH FRIENDS

This thought experiment is called “The Four Burner’s Theory”, and is somewhat similar to the “Cross of Life” that L.D. Pankey taught us.

Both concepts imply that the pursuit of “life balance” is a process, not an event, and that they actually represent a series of values-driven decisions leading us toward a preferred future.

Obviously, there are many times in life, by choice or circumstance, when we are severely out of balance.

Dental school – imbalance
Young children – imbalance
Starting a practice – imbalance

And so forth…

In fact, The Four Burners Theory says that to be successful in business we need to initially “turn down” two burners to establish an initial beachhead.

But frankly, we don’t like to hear that message. Rather, we want to hear that we can “have it all” – and soon. This impatient, short-term mind-set has now permeated our culture, even to the point where many think that somehow “having it all” is their birthright.

But viewing life balance as a birthright is quite problematic, because it can never be fully realized, and because of that, it is easy to start feeling victimized.

And victims don’t act, they blame-shift, they sulk, they over-think, and they FAIL TO ACT IN ANY VALUES-DRIVEN FASHION.

A much more realistic way to view things is that life is full of “seasons”, around which we need to both be aware and act appropriately.

A great homage to this life truth was sung by legendary band, The Byrds*:

To everything (turn, turn, turn)
There is a season (turn, turn, turn)
And a time to every purpose, under heaven
A time to be born, a time to die
A time to plant, a time to reap
A time to kill, a time to heal
A time to laugh, a time to weep
To everything (turn, turn, turn)
There is a season (turn, turn, turn)
And a time to every purpose, under heaven
A time to build up, a time to break down
A time to dance, a time to mourn
A time to cast away stones, a time to gather stones together
To everything (turn, turn, turn)
There is a season (turn, turn, turn)
And a time to every purpose, under heaven
A time of love, a time of hate
A time of war, a time of peace
A time…

Know yourself. Know your season. Act thoughtfully. Live joyfully.

Paul A Henny DDS

*Largely adopted from Ecclesiastes 3 of the Bible.

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2016

Read more at www.CoDiscovery.com

“Living” a Philosophy

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There is an important distinction between “having” a philosophy and “living” a philosophy.

 “Having” a philosophy implies that one has a vision of a better way of life, but it doesn’t necessarily mean that the thoughts are being acted upon…that progress is being made in the direction of that vision. “Having” a philosophy therefore can often represent little more than a dream.

 “Living” a philosophy, or living with a clear sense of purpose, is about engaging life based on our values, on an accurate understanding of ourself, on a realistic view of the world around us, on a clear understanding of what we are trying to accomplish, focused on principle-centered goals, and by acting daily with integrity to support all of the above.

Drs. Pankey and Barkley talked extensively about the need to clarify our practice philosophy and to apply it daily. But most of us rarely think of ourselves as philosophers – particularly through our daily practice – so we struggle seeing the true value in deeply engaging ourselves in this type of internal work.

Their point was that living a life with greater purpose is often an opportunity which lies right in front of us. And consequently, the opportunity for a life full of emotional, spiritual, and financial reward lies there as well.

 Approaching life from a “givers” perspective yields more back in return. It is a perspective of abundance – that loving and caring for others is a reciprocal experience and therefore inherently Win-Win.

Our daily decisions are what drive us toward our future. And it is what we believe about ourself and the world around us -our philosophy- which influences our direction toward a greater or lesser purpose.

Now is good time for you to examine or re-examine your personal philosophy, and subsequent practice and life purpose.

Take the challenge, because here on earth, you only live once. 

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2016

 

HOW you Think is as Important as What You Think

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Problems – we all face them, with
some being frivolous, and others life-changing.

Some cause us to tap into our greatest creative problem-solving potential, while others produce nothing but stress.

Regardless, we think about them. We think about what to do, and what not to do. But how often do we think about the way we think?

You see, the WAY we think is almost as important as WHAT we think. And one of the most common problems related to thinking is OVER-THINKING.

Over-thinking does not necessarily lead us toward deeper insight, because we can often use it as a tricky little way to justify that doing nothing about a problem is somehow productive.

“I need to think about that…”

And this problem arises because living is a process and not an event which we can quantify, box-up, label, and predict. The reality is that we can never, ever know what the outcome of anything will be until we experience it.

“Planning is essential, but plans are useless.”

Dwight D. Eisenhour

A common time for this issue to arise is when we meet a new patient. And this is because we have a lot of incentive to “size them up”.

That Gucci bag? A good sign!

That Mercedes in the parking lot? We are going to create a nice treatment plan today!

In other words, we project onto others – through over-thinking – what WE think THEY think, particularly with regard to how they value dentistry. And consequently, this often leads us down an Alice in Wonderland rabbit hole toward an outcome we never imagined.

That Gucci bag? A knock-off.

The Mercedes? On lease.

Their house? Two months behind on the mortgage.

Our over-thinking often leads us to believe that we are capable of creating a grand finale decision which will never change and forever be correct. But it never happens that way, and you know it.

You will always be wrong about something.

But that’s ok.

The secret to a happy life is to live it every day. And by that I mean fully experiencing its odd, paradoxical and funny ways. The minute we try to box it in, the joy is gone… wonderment lost, and disappointment enters.

Clarify your values. Define your boundaries. Align yourself with others who feel similarly, and live without thinking too much about it.

That is often a hard thing for a dentist to do, but today is a good time to start.

Paul A Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, © 2016

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