Strategically Avoid Confirmation Bias

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Strategically Avoid Confirmation Bias

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“You say my teeth are severely worn down, but I think they have always looked like that….You say that I have cavities because of my diet, but my family just has soft teeth.”

‘Confirmation bias’ refers to our tendency to search for -and favor- information which confirms our beliefs, while we simultaneously ignore or devalue information that contradicts our beliefs.

As dentists working with patients, we are at risk of allowing these mental short-cuts to override good decision-making and therefore undercut our patient’s health if we fail to counterbalance this bias.

We see this happen all the time. We examine a patient, describe and/or show the issue to them, maybe even get them to agree to do something about it, and then they fail to follow through.

Why?

Often this happens when confirmation bias kicks in…they eat lunch later in the day and nothing hurts…their spouse tells them at dinner that they can’t see anything wrong…they know a friend who recently had a bad dental experience over a similar issue.

We are all a bit mentally lazy, and consequently it is almost unnatural for us to formulate a hypothesis and then test various ways to prove it false. Instead, it is far more likely that we will form a lazy hypothesis based on previous experiences, opinions of influential others, cultural influences, or unsupportable fears and seek out information which supports it.

Bob Barkley brilliantly developed a system which effectively allowed him to finesse his way around around confirmation bias. He called it Co-discovery, and it was based on the truth that what an individual learns for themselves is always more powerful and influential than anything they are told by another person.

Yes, it took more time for Bob to do it that way, but it led to an agreement 98% of the time to proceed with proper care -albeit often in phases. And it is only this brand of “yes” that moves people toward greater levels of health.

“No greater risk of failure can be run than that of attempting to use traditional patient management procedures in a health oriented restorative practice. Examining and treating a patient’s mouth without prior attitudinal development is an error of omission for which the dentist pays handsomely with time, energy, stress, and money.”

Robert F. Barkley

Paul A. Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, 2018

Read more at www.codiscovery.com

Spiral up!

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I think most of us agree with Bob Barkley’s statement, “Our diagnosis is the most important thing we have to offer our patients.” But if you think about it, the diagnosis we render will be governed by how we think and what we believe …our “philosophy of dentistry”. And those beliefs will be extensively influenced by our technical abilities at any given point in time. This is because we tend to see only that which we understand, and we tend to overlook that which has no current meaning to us. Consequently, we tend to recommend treatment based upon the things that we understand and do well, and we rationalize away other approaches or other ways of thinking, even though they might be better.

This is why the creation of a written philosophy statement is so important. Because a written philosophy is a perspective and a direction not “a way.” It evolves as we learn and grow, and herefore a “living” document. In fact, if it is not living, it is fixed, rigid, and restrictive. And how can a fixed, rigid mindset be helpful in a rapidly changing marketplace with rapidly changing knowledge and technology?

If your philosophy of practice is not definable enough to write it down, then you do not have a clear one. Instead, you have an incoherent agglomeration of thoughts, facts, beliefs, approaches, experiences, and techniques. And consequently, you will likely approach every challenging situation in a more disorganized fashion, and then vacillate when offering patients treatment options. You will tend to offer those patients with whom you feel good about being around one type of care, and you will tend to avoid offering the very same options to others because you will believe that they might reject you. Yes, you read that correctly, “you” – not “it.” In other words, you will tend to make decisions based more on how you FEEL about yourself than based upon what you KNOW, and what you deeply believe – your values.

A well-defined Philosophy Statement is therefore the critical first step towards becoming consistent and experiencing predictable treatment outcomes. And it is only after we start to routinely experience consistent and predictable outcomes that we become effective at communicating with our new patients the true value of what we have to offer, and what they can expect to gain from it.

So we must first clarify, then write (creatively think), then live, then experience, then repeat.

This is how someone “spirals up”, and not down in “disrupted” marketplaces and situations. Your clarified philosophy functions as a consistent “North Star” reference point to assist you in making the right decisions which will then take you in the right direction.

Paul A. Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2018

Read more at www.codiscovery.com

Listen up! Your future depends on it.

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We have all been there, the interaction with a harried physician, pharmacist, or grocery store clerk somehow left us feeling empty -a bit less like a person. And it seems like this is happening more and more frequently – that our society’s mutually respectful social fabric is fraying more at the edges by the day.

Naykky Singh Ospina, MD, MS decided to investigate how this trend was influencing the practice of medicine. She and other researchers recorded 112 different doctor-patient interactions and evaluated the quality of the communications and the results were not promising.

The researchers found that the observed doctors only spent 11 seconds on average listening to their patients describe their chief complaint before interrupting them.

11 seconds.

And then only 36% of the doctors followed-up with a response which was intended to help clarify what the patient was trying to tell them.

36%.

This likely means that 64% of the doctors were either so clear about their diagnosis after only 11 seconds, that they needed no more input from the patient to make decision, or it means that the doctors had a strong tendency toward confirmation bias, and then projected onto the patient what they thought the patient meant and how they think they felt.

Neither situation causes you to feel very good, does it?

Just like at the grocery store.

Just like at the pharmacy.

Just like your dental practice?

I hope not, because how your patients feel about themselves when they are with you influences everything else:

every interaction,

every decision,

every emotion.

So, are you constantly working on making certain that your patients know they are being heard, or as Daniel Siegel likes to say, “feel felt”? Because it is essential, if you want to prosper in the future as a truly helping professional, and not as just another cog in the dysfunctional medical machine.

Listen, “stay in the question,” as Mary Osborne likes to say, and learn. Listening, gently probing, and allowing the person to establish a narrative about their situation is critical. It causes them to understand themselves better, and it allows us to better understand what it all means to them. Do you truly want to become a health-centered practice? Then it must all begin with clarity and meaning, because motivation emerges out of meaning – meaning to the patient. And without motivation to change, there can be no movement toward sustainable health

Paul A. Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2018

Read more at www.codiscovery.com

Who are you? And whose responsibility is it to find out?

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Find a pathway toward being secure in who you are, and then hold onto your beliefs about yourself only lightly, while maintaining a willingness to dance with complexity -and during moments of disruptive chaos.

During those times, discover the courage within yourself to challenge assumptions about yourself, about others, and about the purpose of your life. And find a willingness to intelligently let go of your life narrative if it is no longer serving you well.

Your life narrative emerges from your past, but if you become too stuck in it, your past experiences and memories will disproportionately influence your future experiences and future memories.

There is no such thing as “back to the future,” there is only forward – and we can choose to do that more intelligently -or not.

Paul A. Henny DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, © 2018

Read more at www.codiscovery.com

Our Profession Isn’t Doing What It Thinks It Is

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There are a handful of people in dentistry such as Ben Miraglia today, who are attacking and destroying the very foundation of our traditional belief systems in dentistry – how people grow, develop and why. They are challenging the broadly taught belief that malocclusions are primarily genetically-driven outcomes, and that tooth size / arch dimension discrepancies (including a lack of room for wisdom teeth) are simply genetic mismatches that we need to live with or accommodate to.

Consider the possibility that many of the problems that our patients suffer from – are driven by inadequate airway dimensions to properly breath and are actually the symptoms of major developmental disorders, developmental disorders that our profession has unknowingly exacerbated in many cases in our pursuit to make teeth straight and pretty.

Such reductionistic thinking is becoming not only inadequate, but problematic for all of us. The time has finally arrived that we in dentistry can not longer think about dentistry as just being about teeth, periodontal health, and a superficial level of attractiveness. We must move forward to a new health centered paradigm which takes as much as possible into consideration when we suggest treatment. Because from what we now know, to do less is not only a disservice to our patients, but it may very well be dong them harm.

Paul A Henny, DDS

Though Experiments LLC, ©2018

Read more at www.codiscovery.com

So, what is a “fact”?

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Consider the possibility that a lot of the things you think of as “facts” today, will in time be disproved or significantly modified. Now consider that your perception of the truth is really just a personal mental construction, based on your limited knowledge and experiences which were influenced by your biases and motivated by many of your subconscious agendas.

Both of these considerations are commonly held truths within the psychological community today – that some “facts” and some “truths” are really just evolving concepts instead of unchanging and fixed reference points of knowledge. Much of this thinking is based on the landmark work of Swiss Psychologist Jean Piaget (1896-1980), who studied how children assimilate knowledge, develop “knowledge structures”, and how those knowledge structures can change over time. Piaget called minor changes to these structures “assimilation’s” and major changes – paradigm shifts really – as “accommodations.”

And we all do this over our entire life.

So, that means our patients do it too.

Most of our patients come to us with very little understanding of what dentistry is about and what it can do for them. On top of that, they have fears and biases. And then on top of that, they have external influencers like spouses, parents, insurance companies, and television ads implying to them that if they have all of their teeth extracted and “new teeth” put in the very same day, they will be happier and look better – forever.

Considering all of this, we have a complicated job on our hands IF we want to truly practice patient-centered dentistry. And this of course, isn’t new news either, as it was exactly what L.D. Pankey meant when he said, “Know yourself” and “Know your patient.”

If our true goal is to “treat the whole person” – meaning effects AND causes, then we have to better understand how our patients think AND why. Because it is how they think which drives their decisions and behavior, and their decisions and behavior drive their health status and attitude towards it.

Jean Piaget taught us that the only real “facts” are associated with how people learn – because it is a primal process and is built into our very biology and physiology.

So, are you paying attention to what your patients know, how they know it, how they feel about what they know, and even whether or not what they know is helpful or hurtful to them over time?

You should be, because it is the only way to practice truly health-centered dentistry, and better understanding all of that will never happen during a ten minute new patient exam in your hygiene room, it will only happen through Codiscovery.

Paul A. Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2018

Read more on www.codiscovery.com

(Piaget’s theory of cognitive development is a comprehensive theory about the nature and development of human intelligence, and is invaluable to anyone who is interested in facilitating growth and change in others)

Truth to Power

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What is the functional IQ of your Care Team? This turns out to be a very important question, because we can easily assemble a team with average IQ’s (around 110) and if they do not know how to optimally function as a unit – if they can’t leverage each other’s intelligence in a synergistic fashion, then the team as a whole will function as if the its average IQ is 90 or 100 and we need 120.

It has become the rage today to talk about EQ – Emotional Intelligence, but what really matters most at the end of the day is IQ because it is predictive of success in complex problem solving environments.

So, what is IQ and why is it relevant? IQ is the ability to take abstract problems and repeatedly come up with effective creative solutions. So, IQ is key because memorization and following direction is not nearly enough in a person-centered practice full of patients with complex and abstract physical and emotional needs. Add to it that most patients are not even aware of their needs, biases, and decision-making processes, and you really do have an intellectual challenge on your hands.

A disorganized team is limited in its effectiveness because of misunderstandings, inaccurate assumptions, ineffective communication, working at cross purposes, and even in-fighting.

Thus, an effective team – not individually smart people – become vital to the long-term success of a truly patient-centered practice. It is where the proverbial rubber meets the road, because if teams cannot learn together, the practice as a living social organization cannot learn. And if the practice cannot learn, it can not adapt to a rapidly changing marketplace – hence, it has no meaningful future.

So, how do we raise the IQ of our Care Team?

Through EQ.

Through emotionally intelligent leadership.

And yes doctor, that is your responsibility.
You pick them and you lead them -one way or the other. In other words, you choose the parts of the social system, and you are the designer of the social system which creates the outcome that you love or loath.

Sorry. Just speaking truth to power.

Paul A. Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2018

Read more on www.Codiscovery.com

Beyond Happydale

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Those of you who know Charley Varipapa, know that he has a larger-than-life personality, combined with this ability to laugh at life, himself, and then to get you to laugh at yourself. And all the while, Charley is usually sneaking in a funny story which is totally self-revealing – as he creates a little learning moment -tied up in a belly laugh.

And if you were to ask Charley where he learned how to do that, he would tell you, “I am just channeling Phyllis, my Italian mother.”

I met Charley for the first time at the Pankey Institute in the late 90’s. His stories and mindset had the whole class laughing and functioning cohesively within just a few hours.

But there was a lot more going on than just Charley’s joking around. When I pulled him to the side during a wine-facilitated evening learning session, I found out more. It turned out that Charley was dead serious about changing his very, very successful practice.

Charley told me that he had grown tired of Happydale, and was now ready to move on. “Happydale? I asked, What the hell is Happydale?”

Charley told me that Happydale was when Mrs, Fellocotti (one of the many metaphorical people Charley would invent to drive home a point) brings a homemade cake to the office because you had been so “nice” to her.

“Yes”, I said, “but what is wrong with that? And how is it related to Happydale?”

“Well”, Charley said, “just because you are being nice and making a lot of money, doesn’t mean that your patients are getting any more healthy or making good decisions. Mrs. Fellocotti still has that crappy partial denture, and was happy that I had agreed to repair her failing crown with an amalgam patch.”

“Oh”, I said, “I think I am beginning to understand. Being nice has nothing to do with effective leadership.”

“Yep”, Charley said, “Sometimes people have to learn about what they don’t want to hear, because it is in their best interest. And Happydale is a place where that doesn’t happen often enough. That is why I am here – to try and learn how to help people make better decisions.”

That conversation launched my friendship with Charley- now over 20 years old. We went on to form the BBSC about a year later with Johnson Hagood. And Charley went on to sell his practice in Southern Maryland and start a new one from scratch in Old Town Alexandria, VA.

His new office was in an attractive mid-1800’s federal style row house right in the center of the revitalized downtown. This time, he chose to have only two treatment rooms – one for himself, and one for his part-time hygienist. And walking in the door of this new office created a feeling of impeccable style and class- like entering of a very sophisticated but unpretentious person’s home- all of it personally designed by Charley.

It was him.

He was it.

But they would come to see him, not just it.

And they would come to laugh with him and to learn more about themselves through stories and experience. Eventually, and often times immediately, they would ask him to help them out.

So, he did.

As result, Charley discovered that he was a lot happier practicing dentistry in this new way, and that his patients were a lot happier about what his dentistry could do for them.

And he still gets the homemade baked goods, hugs, and much more- but Mrs. Fellocotti is nowhere to be found.

(Office tours and great stories are available by appointment only)

Paul A. Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2018

Read more at www.codiscovery.com

The Future of Solo Practice?

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Marc Cooper, DDS recently wrote an op-ed stating, “Solo practices are like pen and paper, hard drives, car keys…all things that are becoming obsolete”, and that consumers are only concerned with “immediate access, convenience, clear pricing, efficiency…digitally validated quality – not connected to a relationship with a dentist.”

Wow.

Certainly, there are some meta trends happening in dentistry which support SOME these conclusions in SOME of the population, but do they merit a blanket conclusion that relationship-based solo practices are now “obsolete”? Because if so, that means what I experience every day in my practice is an illusion. And that the patients who specifically seek us out BECAUSE of the relationships we intentionally build must have missed the memo.

Dr. Cooper goes on to explain, that people like me are “bad a forecasting” (my demise) and that I am “overwhelmed”, and “cannot offer powerful visionary leadership”, and that these represent more reasons why the way I practice today is “obsolete”.

Hmm…

Before we get too far down this road, let’s get a few facts straight. Avrom King projected that the market would fragment in exactly the same pattern evolving today – in 1980. He warned dentists that the “traditional” family practice “was dead or at least on full life support” – in 1980. And that If dentists did not start moving toward a true health-centered, relationship-based practice model soon, that their practice future was at significant risk.

Personally, I’d call that damn good forecasting. And I’d also call the many dentists who followed his sage advice smart, effective, successful, and certainly NOT obsolete.

The truth of the matter is that the market is indeed consolidating, industrializing and dehumanizing just as Dr. Cooper stared. But a niche in the marketplace remains for dentists who know how to build long-term collaborative relationships with people who need them and want them, and who know how to serve them well. And that is only possible through visionary leadership -a skill many solo dentists do indeed have today.

So, I wouldn’t be so quick to close the book on the future of solo relationship-based practices. In fact, I believe that the future is brighter than ever for those who can make themselves ready to receive the patients who feel that they are not being served well by the future digital mills.

And oh yes, it might be helpful for you to know Marc Cooper is the founder of a DSO as well as “senior consultant”, “futurist”, “life coach”, and a “human being” with a little bit of a bias towards the way he makes his living.

Paul A. Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2018

Read more at www.codiscovery.com

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Personal Power is Reciprocal

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Life is a lot like a game. It is a series of physical, emotional, and financial interactions with our environment and others. Sometimes we “win”. Sometimes we “lose”. And sometimes we just learn so that the next interaction will hopefully be more favorable. In this context, we can also view life as a series of negotiations , negotiations with ourselves, others, and our environment.

On this, Jordan Peterson, PhD states: “You can’t negotiate from a position of weakness. You need to understand that if you want to advance your career and yourself you must negotiate with others. And this is because, even if you are competent at what you do, but you remain silent, you will be ignored. So, in the grand scheme of things, what you can do will not even be considered. You will just be a part of the background which is keeping everything functioning for everyone else.”

To develop ourselves, and to become successful, we must therefore be both competent AND strategic. We must be able to say to ourselves and to others (directly and indirectly), “This is who I am….This Is what I believe…This is what I can do to make your life better, easier, or more fulfilling.”

But that kind of posture, that kind of clarity, and that kind of purposefulness, is only useful within the context of a helping relationship, where the meaning of “better”, “easier”, and “more fulfilling”, can be discussed and negotiated…within a relationship where we are in essence making a better offer than doing nothing, or them making another choice.

Truly helping relationships with our patients require personal power, and personal power is both principle-centered and reciprocal, as the power actually comes from the other person and their belief in us.

Paul A. Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2018

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