The Four Forces of Change – “Flip” by Peter Sheahan

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The Four Forces of Change – “Flip” by Peter Sheahan

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The Four Forces of Change

Peter Sheahan

  1. Increasing compression of time and space.

The quicker something can be done, the quicker we expect it to happen.

  1. Increasing complexity.

Sophisticated new technologies, diversifying and intangible new demands of consumers, more information, more knowledge, and more options with too many choices can actually paralyze decision making.

  1. Increasing transparency and accountability.
  2. Increasing expectations on the part of everyone for everything.

           

We need to have a clear vision that compels us toward a better future based on our values and principles with a purpose beyond self-interest. Remember that action creates clarity.  We learn by doing then applying what was learned.

“…..people seem to regret not having done things more than they regret things  they did.”

 

Making the decision to act is the key to success

 

We have no choice but to make up our mind. If we ponder too long we will become irrelevant faster and faster. A decision usually requires some change and some risk, but the risk of not deciding and not taking action is much higher.

  • Decisions lead to action.
  • Decisions create momentum.
  • Decisions create confidence.

NOT TO DECIDE IS TO DECIDE

Absolutely, Positively Sweat the Small Stuff because …. “The Small Stuff is Really THE BIG STUFF”

Today – Being good enough isn’t good enough anymore.

      Advertising Research Journal, research has found that emotions are twice as important as any other consideration in customers’ decisions about what to purchase; and all decisions we make in life. Only after making the decision emotionally do we call upon our cognitive processes to rationalize our choice.

In fact, we automatically rationalize everything we do.

 

Feelings are the most important facts. Do you and your people strive to make every contact with your patients a warm personalized experience? When you see opportunities to gain efficiencies in your operations, do you first consider the impact they will have on how it “feels” to do business with you?

As you expand and grow your business you must hold on to what made you in the first place. It is exactly this kind of authenticity that makes brands attractive. It is the intangibles, like the “warm feeling” of the caring personal relationship that will differentiate your practice.

      Service is essentially how it feels to experience being in your office….the  design and layout, the behavior of your team, the simplicity and ease of getting to your office, making an appointment and fair payment policy.

      Function is how it feels to own your dentistry….the design, comfort and function.  It is about how your service integrates into and supports the patient’s daily life and lifestyle. It is about quality and integration.  

      Story is how it feels for patients to say that you are their dentist. It is the story patients tell themselves and others why they chose you to be their dentist and why they like the dentistry that you did for them. It is the most powerful of the three elements of the total ownership experience.

 

Dentists with the highest profit margins in their fees create a distinctive patient experience; because everyone wants to do business with people they know, like, and trust, and whom they can rely on for help in the future.

 

What applies to your relationship with patients applies equally to your team. Both groups are looking for experiences that give their lives meaning and enhance their sense of purpose in the world. Both want to be treated with respect, and be stimulated to grow and learn. In short, people not only want to do business with, they also want to work for and with, people they know, like, and trust.

People stay at jobs because they like doing quality work and because they like the people they work with. It is about whether people find the work interesting, but it is also about whether the work challenges them and forces them to grow. In fact, treating your team with care and respect supports higher and higher team performance, especially with regard to meeting patients’ needs and wants.

Doctors with good patient relationships were less likely to be sued, even when they did things wrong. Patients who trusted their doctors believed they had their best interests at heart. The way patients judged whether their doctors had their best interests at heart were very simple as:

  • Did they “sound” interested.
  • How “long” they spent in consultation.
    • How intently they “listened.”
    • The “tone” of their voice.

“Patients don’t want choice; they want what they want.”

However, many times they don’t really know what they want; and offering too many choices only confuses them. We need to ask the right questions and listen to understand what they want – then verify our understanding before prescribing a treatment plan.

 

On Mastery

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                                                            MASTERY

                                                                 M. William Lockard, Jr. DDS

 

            Within each of us there is an inner longing to live a life of greatness and contribution to what really matters – to really make a difference.    Stephen Covey                        It all begins with your dream of the life you want to live and the person you want to become: it is a matter of choosing and believing.                                                                                                           

                               Are you doing what you really want to do?                                                           

 The exceptional dental practice is based on values, principles and a purpose-driven vision to create a life of meaningful service by helping people improve their quality of life. This requires a commitment to continuous personal and professional growth which is a never ending spiral of learning new behavioral, organizational and technical skills; then applying the new knowledge and discovering new lessons you must learn. We learn by doing.  

Mastery is not really a goal or a destination, but rather a process, a journey that will take you along a path that is arduous and yet exhilarating. The path of a master is a commitment to the process of learning – doing – and applying what was learned.          

Learning any new skill involves relatively brief spurts of progress followed by a slight decline to a plateau at a higher level than before. It requires diligent practice to improve your skill to gain new levels of competence. During your journey most of the time will be spent on the plateau. It is important to be in the hands of a master teacher who involves the student in the process of learning not just hearing a polished lecture.                       

 Some people are willing to stay on a plateau forever. This is the doctor who doesn’t bother going to learning seminars but feels he is OK doing things the way he has always done them.  Practice, practice, practice is the path upon which the master travels. The dental practice that is only a collection of patients and a way to make money is not a master’s practice. Mastery is staying on the path.                                                                                              

There are times when it becomes necessary to give up some familiar skill or procedure in order to advance to the next level. You may need to assume the mind and attitude of a learner at the beginning of a new experience in growth.                 Ultimately, you will have to decide if you really want to spend the time and effort it takes to get on and stay on the journey; because, lifelong learning is the special province of those who travel the path of mastery, the path that never ends.                                                 

                                      The Masters Path Creates a Life That Matters

Many years ago Dr. Pankey told us that: 2% are masters, 8% are students  36% are adept (average) and 54% are indifferent (mediocre). That may be hard to believe until experience proves otherwise. I have also questioned many lawyers, policemen, builders, physicians, plumbers, CPA’s, etc. about their profession. They all agreed with the percentages. 

After observing dentists and how they practice, some things cannot be learned from a lecture, DVD or books. They must be learned by doing, hopefully under a guidance of a Master.                                                           

Mike Schuster, DDS suggests: There are three areas in dentistry that you must gain competence and then master.

1.    Technical excellence.  You can’t be a master of every area in dentistry. You will only become a Master in one or two areas. You can do endodontics, periodontics, oral surgery, etc. but you will not become a Master in all these areas. No matter how many technical courses you have taken and have achieved a high level of excellence, technical excellence alone has never proven to be the only requirement to become a Master.                                                                                                           

2.    Communication and Behavioral excellence. No matter how much you know and how excellent your technical skills, if you do not understand human behavior and have the communication power of influence, becoming a Master will be impossible.                                                                                                                                         

3.    Organizationally excellence. In addition to the Vision (what we want to create), the Purpose (why we want to create it), and the Philosophy (principles, values), the Master must have:

Systems to provide a structure and standard of excellence that drives your practice from the vision to reality.                                                                                                           

People are the most vital and important element to any business – the right people who work interdependently in harmony and share common values.                        

Time – as doctors, we must structure our time to be efficient with things and time effective with people. A person’s energy is an important element of time.      

Money – how the revenues are created and the costs of doing business are critical to the success of a business. Cash flow systems are management structures. 

Masters are dedicated to the fundamentals and committed to be continual learners. If you choose this path, you won’t work for insurance companies. You will be busy separating yourself from the average and mediocre practitioners.

 

            This is your life. You only get to live it once. It’s a matter of choice.

 

 

 

On The Spiritual Side of Life

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                      The human body is a temple of God that requires our very best care.

                                                                      L.D. Pankey                                                                       

 

Editors Note:

I feel that it is valuable for each us to share how we approach the Spritual Side of Living, as it's importance is all too obvious. For how can one watch their daughter singing like a song bird (when you yourself can not carry a note in bucket) and not feel amazement beyond explaination? Or, how can one look at a snow-capped mountain and not have it take your breath away in sheer admiration of God's work?

Just a matter of random luck? I'm not buying it…

For the sake of transparancy, I am a practicing Christian. This shades my world view. It influences how I raise my children as well as how I treat others. It is the bedrock onto which my life has been built.

This however does not make me in any way judgmental toward others who believe differently (that is, unless their belief system is anti-social and destructive), for the pursuit of knowing God and accepting His will is deeply personal and therefore expressed in many appropriate ways. 

Let's focus here on the positive things your Faith and Spirituality have brought into your life and into the life of others. And so doing, may we help others who feel lost in this essential area of living.

 

Paul A. Henny, DDS

Publisher / Managing Editor

Co-discovery.com

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                                             THOUGHTS FOR LIVING            

Go Places amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence.

As far as possible, without surrenderstrive to be on good terms with all persons.

Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even the dull and ignorant; they too, have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexations to the spirit.

If you compare yourself to others, you may become vain and bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself.

Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals; and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth.

Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.

You are a child of God. Find peace through accepting that His plan is unfolding as it should. Yours is not to know why, as only He knows the greater context and reason for everything.

Therefore through acceptance, be at peace with Him, and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisey confusion of life keep this peace and be assured, Strive to share His love and Peace with others.

 

               Adapted from Desiderata by Max Ehrmann  (1872-1945)

 

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                                                    The Miracle of Faith

 

M. William Lockard, Jr. DDS 

Contributing Writer

           God sent the Holy Spirit to reside with Jesus to enable His ministry on earth. Today we twentieth-century Christians can receive the Spirit no other way, except from Jesus. However, we must take the first step of commitment to Jesus before we can receive the fullness of His Spirit.

          Faith is the substance of all our hopes and dreams and the assurance that our plans and desires will be fulfilled by the Grace of God. Without faith in Jesus Christ which gives man direction for a meaningful life there can be only fear and uncertainty.

          The gift of the Holy Spirit was not specifically for our personal happiness, selfish needs, and peace of mind or joy. Self-fulfillment will follow as dividends to us only as we share the joy of Christ’s love and promise of salvation with all people. The gift of the Spirit is for Service: the ability to communicate truth to people with in-depth perception of their needs as we serve God’s mission on earth.

          When faith is blended with thought, the subconscious mind instantly picks up the message, translates it into its spiritual equivalent, and transmits it to God, as in the case of prayer. All thoughts which have been emotionalized (given feeling) and mixed with faith begin immediately to translate themselves into their physical equivalent. The emotions, or the feeling and believing portion of our thoughts, are the factors which provide vitality, life, and action. Your belief, or faith, that you will receive that for which you ask, is the element which determines the action of your subconscious mind followed by definite plans for procuring that which you desire.

          A mind dominated by positive emotions for the benefit of others becomes a favorable abode for the state of mind known as faith. A mind so dominated may, at will, give the subconscious mind instructions, which it will accept and act upon immediately.

v Faith is the “eternal elixir” which gives life, power, and action to the impulse of thought.

v Faith is the basis of all “miracles,” and all mysteries which cannot be analyzed by the rules of science.

v Faith is the only known antidote for failure.

v Faith is the element, which, when mixed with prayer, gives one direct communication with God through Jesus Christ.

v Faith is the element which transforms ordinary thought into the spiritual equivalent.

v Faith is the means through which the will of God can be received by man.

 

                                                         

                                 The Magic Subconscious Mind

            It is a well-known fact that one comes, finally, to believe whatever one repeats to one’s self, whether the statement be true or false. If a man repeats a lie over and over, he will eventually accept the lie as truth. Moreover, he will believe it to be the truth. Any thought, idea, plan, or purpose may be placed in the mind through repetition of thought. Every man is what he is because of the dominating thoughts which he permits to occupy his mind. These thoughts constitute the motivating forces which direct and control his every movement, act, and deed. This is why you are asked to write out a statement of your major purpose-driven vision for a meaningful life of service; commit it to memory, and repeat it day after day until these words have reached your subconscious mind.

            When one can vividly imagine his dominate desire to the extent that he can see, sense and feel that he possesses his desire as in a virtual reality or hologram, and is pleased with what he will have become and attained, the subconscious mind will guide him to make the necessary decisions and activities to achieve his desire without conscious effort. Only after one chooses to become the person in one’s dreams are the capabilities of the subconscious brought fully into play. Making the right choices and focusing on the results that are really important is the process to achieve a meaningful purpose. It may be, as suggested, that the Holy Spirit is the small, quiet voice in our subconscious mind guiding our thoughts and actions. The subconscious mind will bring to pass any picture in your mind through faith.

            According to Napoleon Hill, “There is plenty of evidence to support the belief that the subconscious mind is the connecting link between the finite mind of man and Infinite Intelligence (God). It is the intermediary through which one may draw upon the forces of Infinite Intelligence at will. It, alone, contains the secret process by which mental impulses are modified and changed into their spiritual equivalent. It, alone, is the medium through which prayer may be transmitted to the source capable of answering prayer. It is true that the subconscious mind responds more quickly to, and is influenced more readily by thought impulses which are well mixed with emotion.”                                                                                    “As you think, you travel: and as you love, you attract. You are today where your thoughts take you. You cannot escape the results of your thoughts but you can endure and learn: can accept and be glad. You will realize the vision (not the idle wish) of your heart, be it base or beautiful, or a mixture of both, for you will always gravitate towards that which you most secretly love. Into your hands will be placed the exact results of your thoughts: you will receive that which you earn – no more, no less. Whatever your present environment may be, you will fall, remain, or rise with your thoughts, your vision, your ideals. You will become as small as your controlling desire; as great as your dominate aspiration.          -As a Man Thinketh, James Allen

 

                                      M. William Lockard, Jr.     www.billlockarddds.com                                

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