The Pathway to Success is Neither Straight or Efficient

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The Pathway to Success is Neither Straight or Efficient

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According to Markus Zusak, he had to rewrite his book 150-200 times until he was happy with it. And he began by imagining the end of the story, then the beginning, then the chapter headings – then the writing…over and over again.

In the end, Markus had a NYT Best-seller, with 8 million copies sold, and a movie deal for ‘The Book Thief’.

One might be tempted to view Markus Zusak as an overnight success, but knowing what I have just told you allows you to understand that’s not the truth. The visibility of his success perhaps appeared to be overnight, but the success took him years to create.

So too is the case with relationship-based / health-centered dentistry -no overnight successes there either. The creation of the practice takes years, starting much like Zusak’s book – beginning with the end in mind.

From there, each aspect is assembled from finding and forming the right Care Team, to developing them, and to finding better and better ways to connect with patients – to truly hearing them…to understanding their struggles…to sensing their desire to feel better about themselves.

And along the way- mistakes, misunderstandings, and outright failures prompting rewrites, re-thinking, and re-doing.

This is the true nature of success – a pathway through failure and upward toward better understanding.

It has been said that the main difference between a vision and a dream is the work involved. The later requires none, the former’s work never ends. A true vision is a principle-centered thought capsule aching to be validated by reality. It has an inherent truth built into it which must be realized. And as with Zusak, if it takes 200 revisions to make it happen – then it takes 200 revisions – so be it.

The simple secret to success is in the willingness to be flexible and to accommodate new understandings combined with a sheer force of will and perseverance that only a few are willing to make.

Paul A Henny DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

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Mindset Is Everything

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Often times perspective is everything, as our thoughts influence our emotions, and then our emotions influence our behavior.

How we view our situation…as challenging but surmountable, impossible and insurmountable, or somewhere in-between, actually influences the very outcome itself.

When challenged with a very difficult situation -let’s say chronic intra-staff turmoil as an example- how we view it makes all the difference in the world. A conclusion of, “That’s just the way people are…and I can’t change it”, yields a much different response than, “I’ve got to do something about this right now as it is really holding this practice back.”

In 1960, Bennet Cerf made a $50 bet with Theo Geisel. Bennet, the founder of Random House Publishing bet Geisel, already a successful author, that he could not write a successful book by only using fifty different words.

Bennet lost the bet, because Geisel saw the limitation as a creative opportunity, and not as an insurmountable obstacle. And as a result, the outcome was a book which has sold over 200 million copies and is now known to almost every adult and child in the Western world. Geisel titled it ‘Green Eggs and Ham’.

It is old news that dentistry is rapidly changing, and in some ways -not for the better. But if we focus on the negatives, we automatically shut down the creative solution-oriented side of our brains….WE STICK OURSELVES in a “glass is half empty” mindset, where we think the glass will surely be even more empty in near the future.

Such thinking was avoided in the minds of Einstein, Jobs, and Tesla, and that is why they kept creating and overcoming seemingly impossible odds.

Thomas Edison said, “Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work”. And that is how we need to view our challenges as well.

Take off the kid gloves and get busy solving your problems. And stop ruminating over what you currently think can not be accomplished – because it can be.

If you don’t another day will be lost spinning your wheels instead of moving forward.

Paul A Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

Bob Barkley & Behavioral Dentistry

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“Behavioral Dentistry” was first pioneered by L.D. Pankey after meeting Carl Jung, studying under George Crane, PhD, and through his study of hundreds of books dedicated to human behavior and differences in personality and motivation.

Bob Barkley then took what he had learned from Dr. Pankey in a new direction. One of Bob’s main influencers was Nathan Kohn Jr., PhD, a psychologist with additional degrees in Law, and Divinity. Nate was an ideal sounding board for Bob at the time, as his broad knowledge base allowed the facilitation of many meaningful discussions in almost every direction.

These explorations with Nate Kohn, Jr. helped Bob to further define his personal expression of Dr. Pankey’s “Cross of Dentistry” – which identified four areas of essential focus:

1. Know Yourself
2. Know Your Patient
3. Know Your Work
4. Apply Your Knowledge

Bob worked diligently in all four areas, but he is best known for his pioneering work in Co-discovery which he used to better understand patient needs, desires, and values. From there, Bob was able to more effectively communicate with patients, which then led them toward making better, health-centered choices over time.

Nate Kohn Jr. told Bob that each patient has a “hidden desire” to take better care of themselves, but that desire may become entangled and almost unidentifiable to them due to past experiences, distorted memories, and family and cultural influences.

Nate tasked Bob with facilitating the self-discovery of each patient’s desire to keep their teeth and possess a healthy, fully functional, and attractive mouth and smile.

To that end, Bob Barkley was able to achieve this outcome with patients over and over again by utilizing his Preventive-Corrective Philosophy combined with Co-discovery which put the patient “in the driver’s seat” with regard to determining their preferred dental future.

Have you similarly tapped into the full power of Co-Discovery and a clarified practice philosophy? I

Paul A. Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

 

Photo credit: Cover art from, A Philosophy of the Practice of Dentistry, by L.D. Pankey & William J. Davis

 

“What we have here is a failure to communicate.”

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When we fail to establish successful health-centered, and collaborative working relationships with our patients, the default relationship is always self-serving, in the sense that we are both working off of assumptions rather than a calibrated and shared view of a situation.

And functioning off of assumptions means that instead of understanding the other person’s perspective, values, feelings, priorities, and current circumstances, we insert our own perspective, values, feelings, and priorities.

In other words, we insert our biases to support our intentions and agendas, while the patient commonly does the same thing.

To quote the Captain in the legendary film Cool Hand Luke, “What we have here is a failure to communicate.”

And when the quality of communication is low, and the subsequent thinking is fogged by -often distorted- personal agendas, decisions typically revolve around the lowest commonly understood denominators.

Like money.

Like insurance coverage.

Like discounts.

And not about quality.

And not about health.

And not about negative trends clearly impacting health.

So that is how we get to the discussion place of, “Does my insurance cover this?”; instead of, “I understand- can you help me find a way that I can afford to do this? It’s important to me.”

And that is how many decisions are made which are not in a patient’s long-term best interest.

“Yes ma’am, you have fender coverage for your car – would you like us to fix it for you?”

Paul A Henny, DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

Learn more at www.codiscovery.com

Philosophy Matters.

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In dentistry, philosophy matters. In fact, it matters in every single practice whether we are consciously aware of it -or not. Bob Barkley knew this, and after first hearing this paradigm-shifting truth from L. D Pankey, he sought assistance.

Nate Kohn, Jr., PhD, was an educational psychologist (who also held a degree in Theology). Nate had been working with dentists for years at the time Bob met him. And Nate, an avid believer in the recently published work of Carl Rodgers PhD on person-centered therapy, helped Bob clarify his person-centered practice philosophy as well as successfully implement it.

From there, Bob shared what he had learned with the world.

Unfortunately, Nate unexpectedly died in 1970, and this forced Bob to continue on his philosophical journey without him. (Bob connected with Avrom King, a Social Psychologist, at about that time, and Avrom worked with Bob via letter and phone calls for an average of five hours a week on Philosophy and application up until Bob’s passing). Bob stated, “I cannot overstate the value of Nate’s psychological guidance during this most critical phase of my life…Nate’s death made it necessary for me to read extensively in order to find references for some of our concepts.”

In other words, the crisis forced by Nate’s death caused Bob to dig down still deeper and grow even more in his understanding of the need for a clarified practice philosophy.

In his book, Successful Preventive Dental Practice, Bob sites the following quote regarding a major problem which still exists within dentistry today, that “outside-in” solutions are commonly employed to resolve “inside-out” issues…issues directly associated with philosophy.

“Life is such that we frequently can ‘get on’, or even ‘get ahead’ , without much reflection, sliding along in paths already well worn by others. This is not to say, that in doing so we may not learn many things along the way. We can continually add new patterns of belief and increase our ability to deal with future situations without understanding the import of what we added.

This process, tends to smother our sensitivity to incongruence; hence, when life occasionally forces us out of well-worn paths, we are overwhelmed by confusion and frustration. We suddenly discover that what we possess is a conglomeration of patterns, not an integral structure. What appears to be knowledge, turns out to be mere information. What seemed to be basic organizing beliefs – a philosophy of life – turns out to be a ‘modus operandi’, a way of working, learned largely through thoughtless imitation, informal conditioning, or by simple trial and error.”*

What is your practice philosophy, and how do you apply it?

* Excerpted from Reflective Thinking: The Method of Education. Hullfish, Gordon, & Smith, 1961

Paul A Henny DDS

Thought Experiments LLC, ©2017

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